Young single mom cries about needing a break

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:what:Like, bruh.....what is wrong wit some of y'all???

He's right to be nasty. If a man had fukked 4 different women and had kids by all of them and they all put him on child support would you be as sympathetic as you're being right now?
 

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Having kids seems to be a life ruiner.
No I think that you need to have the right attitude about it. People go onto it with unrealistic expectations and don’t consider all the aspects of being a parent.
 

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No sympathy. A lot of my choices left me lonely but the world is my oyster. Her choices led to multiple kids, likely a shyt financial situation, and very little room to grow as anything other than a mother.

She made her choice. Hopefully the father/s are really in the picture.
 

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The fact that it’s to the point where Mfs don’t even bother to ask is what’s sad.
Because it comes back to this basic question, if women are the gatekeepers of sex and know the risks associated with potentially getting pregnant / std then they why are they sleeping with or entertaining someone who wouldn't be there for them or care about the health(willingly give them an std)...

I personally live by a rule that I never smash a woman I couldn't see myself have kids with for this reason. It takes a lot of self discipline in a world of casual sex being accessed like candy, but I can truly say I've dodged some bullets. Not every attractive person is worth entertaining especially if you're not compatible and only the physical aspect is there.
 

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Do you feel her pain

Or


Do you not feel sorry for her?




Let's discuss, brehs.

Why should anyone feel sorry for her? She should’ve thought about all of this before she decided to have kidS with a man or men who hadn’t committed to being there for them. She wants to kick the “woe is me” shyt now but if you would’ve tried to school her before she had the kids she wouldn’t have wanted to hear it. The only ones I feel sorry for are her kids for apparently having 2 wack parents.
 

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That's basic frustration, but of course I didn't watch the whole video. I'd bet a lot of single mothers who kids fathers aint in their lives feel the same way.
 

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Single Parenthood is one of the single biggest detriments to the black community there is. I say this as a kid raised by a single mother.

It ruins social cohesion and just by virtue of the fact you're doing it alone, it means the kid usually gets less attention and care than in a two parent home where parents can share the responsibility.
 

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Baby daddy gave her HIV? Fukk up your life completely brehs

And like clockwork now she’s a child of God, maybe if she read the good book she would have kept her legs closed smh
Its not even about not having sex. You're not going to stop human beings from having sex.

Its just as simply as maybe taking a pill or using a condom. Folks can't bother to even do that much.
 
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