I'll admit I didn't read all 31 pages of you all trying to assert the fact that this is black women acting as WM "lapdogs". The one thing I never read was you as BM helping these women when they are being harassed. You all want to talk about unity, but I didn't even read a solution that had any. Maybe if the respectable BM would step in and tell ignorant others that it's inappropriate to harass their women in their presence no less we might not even be having this conversation. I've had men harass me constantly, on the train, bus, walking down the street, etc., and there was always some other man there laughing or just lurking in the shadows. I've even had men come up to me AFTER the fact and say that was rude. Not that they have any responsibility to "save" me, but these are steps that would obviously alleviate the problem. But no one wants to get involved, because you don't know me or some excuse. I don't think law enforcement is the solution though. Y'all talk about sticking together, so next time this happens maybe you as a man should step in. That way, you'll be helping out BM and BW. The woman won't be harassed, and maybe you can help the man understand his actions are not okay, and not be accused of harassment and any further demonization.
