#YouOKSis?

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Each case is going to be different so you should just pay attention to how the girl is behaving. No of course means no, so like if she's giving tons of excuses or just flat out saying no thanks...a lot you probably should just fall back. If you're always initiating the communication then she's probably not interested either. You may want to set some boundaries within yourself like if she doesn't initiate contact with you in X amount of time, then don't contact her anymore. I think that will at least prevent you from being overbearing.


This reads....if she finds you attractive it's ok...but if not it's harassment.
 

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Y'all dudes need a fukking reality check. Y'all are always getting so defensive when our fukkery gets some attention meanwhile y'all are the first ones to point out and judge women with the quickness. Black women take stand against street harassment and all of a sudden she's a pawn of white feminism when most of the ones that speak out against it don't even know or care about feminism. Do y'all think that low of black women that yall think they have no identity or their own feelings or is it the simple case folks not wanting them to have any?

Y'all see no problem with cat calling even though we all have mothers, sisters, gfs, wives, daughters etc? Like if your walking down the street and you see a man approaching ya moms and being aggressive with her over a phone number, yall wouldnt feel some type of way?


Problem is dudes are letting their feelings and fears of rejection cloud their vision when it comes to this situation.

@ the bolded is the part of that has me :mindblown:
 

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Y'all dudes need a fukking reality check. Y'all are always getting so defensive when our fukkery gets some attention meanwhile y'all are the first ones to point out and judge women with the quickness. Black women take stand against street harassment and all of a sudden she's a pawn of white feminism when most of the ones that speak out against it don't even know or care about feminism. Do y'all think that low of black women that yall think they have no identity or their own feelings or is it the simple case folks not wanting them to have any?

Y'all see no problem with cat calling even though we all have mothers, sisters, gfs, wives, daughters etc? Like if your walking down the street and you see a man approaching ya moms and being aggressive with her over a phone number, yall wouldnt feel some type of way?


Problem is dudes are letting their feelings and fears of rejection cloud their vision when it comes to this situation.

I grew up in Brooklyn and none of my female family members have ever said theyve been street harassed. Matter fact I don't know a single black woman who has ever complained to me about it. I've seen dudes act extra thirsty but a no thank you I'm not interested is usually the end of the convo.

Even my own GF has said she's never experiences it growing up in Atlanta or going to an HBCU in Florida.
 

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I grew up in Brooklyn and none of my female family members have ever said theyve been street harassed. Matter fact I don't know a single black woman who has ever complained to me about it. I've seen dudes act extra thirsty but a no thank you I'm not interested is usually the end of the convo.

Even my own GF has said she's never experiences it growing up in Atlanta or going to an HBCU in Florida.

Honestly I'm so sick of @Willstyles going for the cheesy "what about your mother or sister or daughter" line. That's a typical feminist move. Going for the personal emotional heartstrings instead of logic.
 

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Honestly I'm so sick of @Willstyles going for the cheesy "what about your mother or sister or daughter" line. That's a typical feminist move. Going for the personal emotional heartstrings instead of logic.

Yeah I mean seeing a bunch of dudes getting mad at your sister when she turns down their advances and having to step in is such a cheesy thing to say. Y'all fakkits care more about feminism than i do and Im the one that actually deal with them. Now if you tag me again in these threads im gonna put u on ignore.
 
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