Your 20s are the only time girls like you for you

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Not completely true, there are a lot of women that like older dudes just because they're older. If you take care of yourself and have a good personality you'll be able to find someone that will be with you even if you don't have a lot of money.
 

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teenage years

yea. thread is a bit off. a good portion of chicks in their 20s want dudes who ballin. sometimes i feel like the relationships i had in hs were more pure because of it. chicks determining that they like you now because they see [insert what car you're driving/where you work/where you graduated] ain't the business breh. :thumbsdown:
 

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I would say when you're in your high school days, u could get by off "swag". Once you out of that college age, these chicks are being approached by nikkas who got established careers and that financial security looks better to em.

The funny thing is it goes both ways.

Men have their entire lives to set themselves up financially and still be desirable by the opposite sex. I've seen bytches hype up George Clooney more when he had grey hair vs. when he was still on tv.

Women on the other hand only have between ages 18-35ish...before the next wave of perky breasted, non bitter chicks start taking their place.


I think a better statement is the older you get the younger your woman has to be to be happy with you.
 

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yea. thread is a bit off. a good portion of chicks in their 20s want dudes who ballin. sometimes i feel like the relationships i had in hs were more pure because of it. chicks determining that they like you now because they see [insert what car you're driving/where you work/where you graduated] ain't the business breh. :thumbsdown:

Ummmmm chicks were looking for certain qualities in dudes even back in high school. People are always looking for certain qualities in the other sex, they just change over time. The average chick is going to be looking for whatever society says is in vogue for that age group at the time. The average chick.....
 

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I think a better statement is the older you get the younger your woman has to be to be happy with you.

Not really...they always going to be in that age bracket.

Picture yourself at 40 years old and you're doing very well for yourself financially. You're at an upscale bar and you see an attractive 21 year old giving you the eye and u also see an attractive 40 year old woman doing the same.

Instinctively, where will your dikk be pointing? (no homo)
 

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Ummmmm chicks were looking for certain qualities in dudes even back in high school. People are always looking for certain qualities in the other sex, they just change over time. The average chick is going to be looking for whatever society says is in vogue for that age group at the time. The average chick.....

nah....that shallow sh*t is definitely more overt in college.

in our teens, if a chick was feelin us, and we feelin them, its a go. shyt was pure. neither of us was trying to get something from each other outside of :shaq:

by college/early 20s, a good portion of chicks is determining that they like you AFTER they size up what station you're at in life.

for example b.......i got chicks in my hometown that never checked for me in HS. after i went to the right college, got the right whip, started putting something in motion for myself, bytches got EXTRA attentive when we spoke less than 3 times the past 10 years :dry: Ain't nothing pure about that sh*t.
 

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At 20s personal qualities yea you can pull some females based off that but some depending on who they are looking for someone has something going in life and puts you ahead of the game if you in your 20s with a job car and a place
 

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Most girls in their 20s go for shallow qualities like muscles, the size of your social circle, tattoos, musical instrument, etc. If anything, they like "you" less.


That is YOU.

Your Image IS you.

And thats exactly what im talking about. Those personal qualities that make you 'cool' and 'interesting' only matter in your 20s. After that, its not as important.
 

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That is YOU.

Your Image IS you.

and when you're older...you're more fiscally responsible. that IS YOU as well.

i think women of any age like you for what you can do for them. its social status either way. whether that means how you're physically attractive you are, what your social circle is like, or how you can take care of them financially. womens priorities shift but its ultimately the same shyt.
 

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and when you're older...you're more fiscally responsible. that IS YOU as well.

i think women of any age like you for what you can do for them. its social status either way. whether that means how you're physically attractive you are, what your social circle is like, or how you can take care of them financially. womens priorities shift but its ultimately the same shyt.

I guess at the root of things the 2nd paragraph is true.
 

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Like I said your best shot is when you're a young teen and your parents are still taking care of you, so money isn't the factor (13-17)

And when you're old and grey, where relationships are genuine and people have matured (50 and older)

That time period in the middle which is like (18-45) is like a battle grounnd where you're amidst the chaos
 
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