Your 20s are the only time girls like you for you

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i'm 22 @ the end of the month. if it's true i'm good, i got a while before i'm outta the 20s. :win:
 

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For sure, its not like people wears their true moral fabric on their sleeve.

Breh, you're not making sense.

First you say that your 20s are the only time when women like "you for you."

Then you say that superficial shyt like muscles, tattoos and all the stuff girls in their 20s like are part of your image, which is basically "you" anyway since no one can ever get to know "you."

But even if that logic is true (and it isn't) then anything and everything, including having a high-profile job, falls under the category of "image"...which is "you"...

...and your argument doesn't make any sense anyway.
 

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Breh, you're not making sense.

First you say that your 20s are the only time when women like "you for you."

Then you say that superficial shyt like muscles, tattoos and all the stuff girls in their 20s like are part of your image, which is basically "you" anyway since no one can ever get to know "you."

But even if that logic is true (and it isn't) then anything and everything, including having a high-profile job, falls under the category of "image"...which is "you"...

...and your argument doesn't make any sense anyway.


Nope, you don't get it.

You are not your job, unless you're an artist or something.

Tattoos are not superficial, its not like clothes. It takes a certain type of person to get tattooed and a certain type of person to be against tattoos. The fact you have tattoos says something about the type of person you are. Same with muscles, not everyone cares about their appearance, that is a personal quality.


Muscles and tattos are something girls will like about you, or something they will use to NOT like you. You are defined by these things.


Same with your social circle. If you are of high social status, your social circle will be of high status. The exact opposite is true. Your social status basically proves if you're a lame or not. That's a personal quality.

Your 20s are the only time this stuff matters, after that it seems like people will ignore your personal qualities or lack of them as long as you got paper.
 
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Not really, i think girls in there 20's/early 30's are strongly attracted to image. I've been rejected by girls who then went on to date less attractive dudes simply because they fulfilled a fantasy or image better than i did.

Example: Hipster girls only going for hipster guys etc.
 

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Not really, i think girls in there 20's/early 30's are strongly attracted to image. I've been rejected by girls who then went on to date less attractive dudes simply because they fulfilled a fantasy or image better than i did.

Example: Hipster girls only going for hipster guys etc.


Word. Best time to get with a chick is 16-19 thats when that shyt is the purest. Plus they aint get burned or smutted yet, so they aint that bitter yet.
 

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Word. Best time to get with a chick is 16-19 thats when that shyt is the purest. Plus they aint get burned or smutted yet, so they aint that bitter yet.

Yea this what I believe too, as of now

I've only seen two relationships last so far and both couples the girl was 15 when they met
 

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Same formula has worked for me for a while. Strong conversation. Underplay sex till it happens and give her da D I C K. Game. Set. Match. No money involved.
 

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Disagree. The older I get the more I care about how much I make. As long as he can support himself then :manny:
I have 8 years until 30 though so we'll see.
 

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yes and no. I'd say in your early 20's you can get by on looks and "swag". But the older you get the more you have to bring to the table. At 30, if you don't live on your own, have an established career, etc...you will be hard pressed to find many women of substance. But I mean....hoes were fukking dudes cuz they had a nice car in highschool so I can't completely agree with this.
 

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This dude told me that the other day.

He said that your 20s are the time when you can get any girl based off your own personal qualities. After that its all about financial security.


Do you agree brehs?

In my 30s and it is absolutely the reverse. After your 20s, everybody tends to realize how stupid they were for focusing on the superficial shyt (i.e. cars, money, clothes) and afterwards, for the most part, tend to focus on the quality of the person.

Don't get it twisted, financial security is necessary but I find that some chicks (not all) are willing to tough it out with you as you get older. Must be a quality person first though. My experience, brethren. :ld:
 

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yes and no. I'd say in your early 20's you can get by on looks and "swag". But the older you get the more you have to bring to the table. At 30, if you don't live on your own, have an established career, etc...you will be hard pressed to find many women of substance. But I mean....hoes were fukking dudes cuz they had a nice car in highschool so I can't completely agree with this.

I, as a 31 year old guy with no established career, must agree with this. For the younger broads, you're that old bum who can't provide for her, but you don't have an excuse as to why you can't (as opposed to the guys of her age). Girls my age are either established emotionally/financially themselves, or not going to consider a guy who isn't (their clock is ticking). It is what it is.
 

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I agree...

I could be broke at 25 and still pull a nice girl. Let me be broke at 35 and try to pull a chick.....:rudy:

I won't even make it to the first date

VERY true, breh....your job title is your biggest asset in your 30s. if your shyt doesn't sound important, then they assume you don't make money, and they hit you with the :why::rudy::pacspit::snooze:
 
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