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Only fux with guys for a few things: Money/Business, Sports and gender-specific banter.

Fux with females for everything else.

Easy to be platonic with a female... just fukk with a grounded, reliable female you don't find attractive romantically. Keep it as honest as possible with her. Balance your time with her. Don't overdo it. Be careful about where and how y'all spend time together. Pick up the phone every now and then. Answer her calls every now and then. Reassure her every now and then. Be a man. Be a friend. Be fair with her and decent. You know, just regular shyt.

And she'll ride for you... at the drop of a dime...She'll be true. She'll be loyal. Moreso than niccas.

See, most niccas are motivated by money. Quicker to jump at opportunity at the expense of the friendship/association. Ya niccas will hate on the low for what you're acquiring. A real chick will help you improve how and what you're acquiring whether y'all are romantic or not.

Niccas struggle to find a balance between giving more than taking...It's our nature. Conquering is in our DNA.

But women give.

They'll come down to the precinct just before midnight when its time to leave that holding cell and you're about to go into population...and post that bond. And then they'll say, "I know you're good for it, just pay me back when you can." Cook you a meal when you sick. Clean ya house and shyt if ya leg is broken. Take that out of town trip with no reservations.

Most women are nurturers. So once you and the platonic female get past the "this-is-not-gonna-be-romantic" stage, she isn't motivated by money or what you have materially. She's motivated by you and the nurturing of the relationship. And learning from/with you. And only the real females will move past "this-is-not-gonna-be-romantic" stage. You gotta keep them around.

Women are often the bridge for a lot of business opportunities. Resource acquisition. Enhancement of social/human capital.


Y'all missing out on a lot. Not too sure about a lot of y'all niccas...

:snoop:


...sometimes even after she finds her own man she'll still wanna keep riding for you. :russ: (But you gotta be a man about it, and politely tell her to fall back. And they will eventually fall back if you don't waver on that stance).


Have a social/friend/associate circle full of lame ass niccas playing Xbox, brehs...
 
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