Your sarcasm disgust me.....
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Desirous
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lol my bad. I'll make my next thread about reasons not to get married breh so I can get 5 stars!
But don't hate me though wtf
Stop making threads.lol my bad. I'll make my next thread about reasons not to get married breh so I can get 5 stars!
But don't hate me though wtf
Also, you need more ass pics in your instagram/tumblr or whatever
Desirous
Action expresses priorities
No and lol!
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
had a shorty bout 3 yrs ago i wanted to lay da fuk out in my class.
Didn't press first week of class, but 2nd week i moved in.
3 months later i asked her to kick it on da level one weekend, and while she was initially wid it, she switched it up...tellin me she was going to see her boyfriend.
i may have friendzoned myself by waiting too long, but there was also no way i was sticking around.
She even texted me afterwards on some 'i hope dis doesn't change anything between us' shyt
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ever since then, i either make my intentions known from the jump or my cock ain't attracted to you.
Didn't press first week of class, but 2nd week i moved in.
3 months later i asked her to kick it on da level one weekend, and while she was initially wid it, she switched it up...tellin me she was going to see her boyfriend.
i may have friendzoned myself by waiting too long, but there was also no way i was sticking around.
She even texted me afterwards on some 'i hope dis doesn't change anything between us' shyt
.......ever since then, i either make my intentions known from the jump or my cock ain't attracted to you.
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
i object.
just what exactly was he tryna accomplish by doing all that with someone he ain't sexually involved with?
either he was a closet phaggot or wanted to make someone jealous.
and i can't say i ain't surprised you took him up on any of his offers. That's a win-win for any broad. Having the benefits of being in a relationship without having to do anything in return.
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Only fux with guys for a few things: Money/Business, Sports and gender-specific banter.
Fux with females for everything else.
Easy to be platonic with a female... just fukk with a grounded, reliable female you don't find attractive romantically. Keep it as honest as possible with her. Balance your time with her. Don't overdo it. Be careful about where and how y'all spend time together. Pick up the phone every now and then. Answer her calls every now and then. Reassure her every now and then. Be a man. Be a friend. Be fair with her and decent. You know, just regular shyt.
And she'll ride for you... at the drop of a dime...She'll be true. She'll be loyal. Moreso than niccas.
See, most niccas are motivated by money. Quicker to jump at opportunity at the expense of the friendship/association. Ya niccas will hate on the low for what you're acquiring. A real chick will help you improve how and what you're acquiring whether y'all are romantic or not.
Niccas struggle to find a balance between giving more than taking...It's our nature. Conquering is in our DNA.
But women give.
They'll come down to the precinct just before midnight when its time to leave that holding cell and you're about to go into population...and post that bond. And then they'll say, "I know you're good for it, just pay me back when you can." Cook you a meal when you sick. Clean ya house and shyt if ya leg is broken. Take that out of town trip with no reservations.
Most women are nurturers. So once you and the platonic female get past the "this-is-not-gonna-be-romantic" stage, she isn't motivated by money or what you have materially. She's motivated by you and the nurturing of the relationship. And learning from/with you. And only the real females will move past "this-is-not-gonna-be-romantic" stage. You gotta keep them around.
Women are often the bridge for a lot of business opportunities. Resource acquisition. Enhancement of social/human capital.
Y'all missing out on a lot. Not too sure about a lot of y'all niccas...
...sometimes even after she finds her own man she'll still wanna keep riding for you.(But you gotta be a man about it, and politely tell her to fall back. And they will eventually fall back if you don't waver on that stance).
Have a social/friend/associate circle full of lame ass niccas playing Xbox, brehs...
that's cool and all, but look at all the shyt you putting yourself through just to have a female friend lol....it aint that serious...you can have plenty of female friends that have all the qualities you named and they can be attractive too....it's cool if you want to fukk them, that's natural....just dont let the friendship be based on the fact you wanna fukk them....cause i have plenty of female friends that are attractive, cool as shyt, and i'd fukk the shyt out of if the opportunity presented itself...they know this cause i've told them, yet we're cool as shyt...reason being: the friendship isnt based off whether or not i'd fukk them...cause you're right: men should have some female friends to get their perspective on things...it helps you grow as a person....the same goes for women having male friends....
i object.
just what exactly was he tryna accomplish by doing all that with someone he ain't sexually involved with?
either he was a closet phaggot or wanted to make someone jealous.
and i can't say i ain't surprised you took him up on any of his offers. That's a win-win for any broad. Having the benefits of being in a relationship without having to do anything in return.
i think that cat fukked himself...he probably wanted more than to be friends, but he waited to late to let it be known, and at that point he was scared to make a move cause he didnt want to risk losing her as a friend...so he was waiting on her to make a move....which is some p*ssy shyt lol....and that's some shyt i dont do...
GhettoTeK
All Star
Yo I actually have a close female friend strictly platonic..
Female friends can b cool, ive never had a close one but nothin wrong with them. Theyre generally better to talk to in terms of small talk cus it just feels good to be friends with a girl if shes not butt ugly. Dont knoe if i could b close friends with one cus im not into going out an doing shyt i just like gettin high playing video games an playin ball. Any dude who goes shopping with u an chills with u at ur house an shyt, and doesnt show interest is probably gay. Even if i didnt like her that way id still playfully flirt till i get some. Friends with benefits literally lol.
UserNameless
Veteran
I'm with you.
Definitely not against having female friends that I find romantically attractive, but that friend status would usually shift to romantic if we're both available and/or there's a mutual interest. The example I used just seemed to be more commonplace for heterosexual males. But just being a hetero man, you're gonna wanna smash regardless of whether that feeling is reciprocated.
That's just what it is...can't escape it, but it shouldnt close off a good association/friend/resource. And if these guys are smashing grade A (pardon me ladies for the objectification) as much as they say they do, it shouldn't matter anyway! And it's really not a lot of energy...you learn to balance it as you age. It's just fostering a relationship as should be carried out with anyone there's some measure of interest in. But we all have our standards or ways of fostering a relationship.
havoc
Superstar
In my 32 years of living, I fukked most of my female friends(so called friends)..Every female acquaintances that I have usually have an intimate interest in me unless it just strictly business..
I'm with you.
Definitely not against having female friends that I find romantically attractive, but that friend status would usually shift to romantic if we're both available and/or there's a mutual interest. The example I used just seemed to be more commonplace for heterosexual males. But just being a hetero man, you're gonna wanna smash regardless of whether that feeling is reciprocated.
And it's really not a lot of energy...you learn to balance it as you age. It's just fostering a relationship as should be carried out with anyone there's some measure of interest in. But we all have our standards or ways of fostering a relationship.
i hear you...i just dont worry about it shifting cause in most cases once yall become good friends, yall learn a lot of shyt about each other good and bad...so unless yall ready to be a couple like that, all that shyt yall know about each other tends to keep yall at arm's lenght...
lol true...the way these cats talk, they fukking nothing but grade A snatch all the time...
maybe it's not for you, but it seems a lot for me...to me, friendships just happen with people regardless of their looks...but like you said, it's all individual and how they develop/what they look for in friendships...