Your girl hanging out with guy friends.....

[The Mad Titan]

I see your logic, it makes more sense on paper than in the real world though. It's one thing to know that random women might hit on your man in public or whatever. That's nothing, most faithful men will easily squash that. What am I'm gonna do exchange numbers with you & get caught up in some bullshyt? Naw I'll pass.

But an attractive platonic friend a man has been given a pass to chill with at anytime? Maybe nothing happens the 1st 10 times, but people are driven by emotions, and those emotions are more powerful than logic & good intentions. Doesn't matter if your dude is a good & well intentioned person. What if yall get into a fight and he's pissed at you, and then goes to chill with a chick willing to listen to his side and console him? What if he just chillin and has a few drinks and gets taken advantage of because of impaired judgement? They call it playing with fire for a reason.

Its like a fat person on a diet, who struggles with food. They may be able to easily turn down the prospect of stealing(or even buying) a twinkie at the store if they are craving something sweet. But if you put free donuts in front of them all day in an office environment, they probably gonna cave at some point, no matter how disciplined or well intentioned they are. Doesn't make them a bad person, but the human brain is actually limited in it's ability to turn down temptation sitting right in front of it.

I'm married and have no plans to cheat on my wife, but no way would I ever kick it alone with a chick that is willing and wants to give it up to me, friends or not. It's just foolish. This is the older me talking though, in my youth, I felt the same way as you.

 

[JA_Carter]

Honestly, your woman even fixing her mouth to suggest hanging out with a male friend shows how little she respects you. At that point it’s probably worthless expressing your displeasure. It’s easier to find a good woman than trying to fix a harlot

 

[Treblemaka]

Yall must not have any fine female friends to hangout with.

Your lady is going to spend time with whoever she wants regardless of whether she tells you or not. If you have trust issues dont be in a relationship. If shes given you reasons not to trust her break up.

There only two ways to ensure she doesnt cheat. Being controlling and potentially abusive or choosing well with good discernment.
The Coli is one of the WORSE places to get relationship advice. Its like a woman on LSA asking those women if her man is treating her right.