you let your woman hang out with straight dudes? really? 
Your girl hanging out with guy friends.....
- Thread starter International Playa
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I already answered this...in addition to stating that it's not the platonic friendship with a woman that is an issue with me, it's the exes that hang around that are an issue for me.
This is how I think in a nutshell - In this context, I don't concern myself with other people's intentions; it is what a person ACTUALLY does that I take note of. Intentions can be squashed and redirected into something else as I have the ability to make them into a reality or not. (This is how I was able to have and maintain my friends all these years).
Action Mike
All praise..
Oh okay. Probably the first female to be cool with your man keeping and regularly seeing female friends that are willing to have sex with him at any time but he keeps their intentions at bay in order to maintain there friendship that developed out of the initial attraction.
Salute to that breh.
JetFueledThoughts
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Ok I feel that, but you never answered my question though. Your man has several female friends that are sexually into your man. They know he's got you at home, they can respect that, but they've made it known that they'd still buss it open for him. Your man insists that he doesn't see them like that, they're just his homies. You're cool with him hanging out with those friends?
I actually like how you did that. You're fancy
.Seriously, you really can't fathom the thought or connect the dots that there actually are some heterosexual men walking the planet who are friends with women that want them sexually but he doesn't indulge her?!
Guess what? There are 2 to 3 comments in this very thread stating that. Oh, damn, I broke the internet and caused a paradigm shift too.
J/K
Oh, Mr. Jet, the same question rephrased a bit differently
I don't know how else to answer you other than to say my answer remains the same.
But here's a nugget for you -
I would be crazy to get my thongs in a knot over who is throwing coochie at a guy that I am involved with.You see, I pick men that are all around attractive and it is EXPECTED that other women are going to want him too and that may include his friends. Now logic tells me not to knock myself out worrying about another woman and her intentions but to concern myself with my ability to choose a decent man that has my back! If I should happen to find out that he's lowdown-dirty, I am prepared to walk away. The End.
@Lady.Libra. .....cut the bullshyt girl 
So Im out of town for a week.....my girl got a day off from work so she told me she gonna spend the afternoon with her guy friend.....who I havnt met yet.
If I say Im not cool with guy friends she gonna pull the Im "insecure" card at me,. This new gemeration of women dont understand that guy friends just wanna fukk & it aint real friendship.
Fukk the bullshyt.
Depends on how good a friend he is. If he's a fun friend or a friend that's going through some things...maybe. My man would know this friend though....
You make friends at school, work, in the community, etc. There is a benefit in having some people as friends. Someone who wants to have sex with you is not going to feel that way after you shut them down. They will accept it and concentrate on the friendship part. I would have no problem with my man around a chick who wanted to fukk him. I don't have to trust her...I trust him. He's grown, if that's the decision he makes then that means he is ready for the grown man consequences as well.
....Women truly are clueless about how men think.
The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
hope that he's gay... i'm extra nice to the gay friend... yea take her ass everywhere you go... don't ever let her fukk up the friendship... always tell her it's her fault and to apologize to the nikkaSo Im out of town for a week, my girl got a day off from work so she told me she gonna spend the afternoon with her guy friend, who I havnt met yet.
If I say Im not cool with guy friends she gonna pull the Im "insecure" card at me,
lord knows i don't want her seeking a new male best friend who ain't gay... and yes... super gay... magic johnson son gay... i have to be sure
@Lady.Libra. .....cut the bullshyt girl
Cut it, cut it, cut it, cut it. FIYAH!
You laughing way too much
You need to cut it
LOL, Look at what you did. Now that song is stuck in my head!
It's too much of a time and energy investment to hang out with an attractive woman and not try to get with her. Especially if she's not hooking me up with her friends. And I don't have the energy or time to do that and also hang out with additional women to acquire some sex.Female lurkers please take note.
Man after man has said the same thing in this thread, it's not like this is some flattering shyt to lie about.
Are there some exceptions? Sure.
Not enough exceptions to change the general rule.
We don't think like men and men don't think like us. No need to try to make us the same because we are not.
Male friends want to fukk/would fukk/ just waiting for your nikkas to fukk up so they can hopefully fukk.
Facts.
Besides, female friends pretty much abandon you once they find a man.
Action Mike
All praise..
I actually like how you did that. You're fancy
Seriously, you really can't fathom the thought or connect the dots that there actually are some heterosexual men walking the planet who are friends with women that want them sexually but he doesn't indulge her?!
Guess what? There are 2 to 3 comments in this very thread stating that. Oh, damn, I broke the internet and caused a paradigm shift too.
Okay short answer is your cool with it.
Haha your really on some..
And yet they keep arguing with us
All of them think that they found the special snowflake friend that is heterosexual male but has 0 traits of a heterosexual male
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Originalgangsta317
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@Lady.Libra. you been posting a bunch of bullshyt
you been posting a bunch of bullshyt
