Your reaction when a fine chick BLATANTLY comes onto you

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Beta.... :mjlol: I expected better of you @Intruder v3.0 .
I dont know about this one... Fine women that feel you send signals all the time.It's just the way she did it.

As far as that comment goes sometimes you just know when you got no shot at a particular chick after a few conversation. It's not a beta male issue at all. Low self esteem/beta would be if you never had a convo with the chick and just assume she wouldnt want you.

Not that i believe in the whole alpha/beta male sh!t anyway.
 

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I just go with it. 99% of the time i overrate females anyway. First few times i see her i'll be thinking shes a nine. You get to know her and shes like a 6 with a horrible personality. No girl is perfect. If you remember that you'll never be surprised by a female coming onto you.
 

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Ignore her. It fukks with her self esteem and makes her pursue me even harder:blessed:
Im always skeptical like "what is this brawd really after" :childplease:

This isnt an issue of self-esteem or self confidence, either.

We all know good looking women have it made in this world. They can get almost any dude they want at the snap of a finger while playing hard to get acting like they dont care for you at all.

But when a fine ass (8-10 in most peoples opinions) chick you thought you'd have no shot at blatantly comes onto you, whats your INITIAL reaction? Do you jump at the chance or proceed with caution like :whoa:
 

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Ignore her. It fukks with her self esteem and makes her pursue me even harder:blessed:
Hmmm... why didnt i think of that? It's worked for me before, too :ohhh:
 

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Ignore her. It fukks with her self esteem and makes her pursue me even harder:blessed:

In my experience, this usually backfires... Some females don't already like the fact that if you're in the upper echelon of male attractiveness, so they may want not to approach because it effects their self-esteem. Now, add in that because you are good-looking, you have no problems attracting women, which is not always true. Finally, they'll get over that soft rejection quick if there's someone that catches their eye. All you did was cock-block yourself(if that wasn't your intention).

The average and below pursue harder... :scust::rudy::comeon::stopitslime:
 

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I dont know about this one... Fine women that feel you send signals all the time.It's just the way she did it.

As far as that comment goes sometimes you just know when you got no shot at a particular chick after a few conversation. It's not a beta male issue at all. Low self esteem/beta would be if you never had a convo with the chick and just assume she wouldnt want you.

Not that i believe in the whole alpha/beta male sh!t anyway.
This is what I'm saying bro, don't ever think or move like that. ANY woman is subject to being courted. There's been dime women that you've not even bothered talking to that could've been your wife by now. True, it comes from a certain arrogance in me from when I was younger but however you come to this conclusion doesn't matter, so long as you come to it.

I've been with a couple women that brehs here on the coli thought I was :ducktales: about at first and then showed proof of the relationships with only to have them ask "....:mindblown: Damn breh, how did you pull that shyt off?" I was a young cat playing ball, industry plugged and street plugged in LA and Atlanta. That is the route I took to come to this conclusion. Everyone has a different road to get to it but trust me breh, there is no such thing as "leagues" or a woman that you "have no shot at". Its only a "no shot" if you never take it.

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But when a fine ass (8-10 in most peoples opinions) chick you thought you'd have no shot at blatantly comes onto you, whats your INITIAL reaction? Do you jump at the chance or proceed with caution like :whoa:

Neither. For me, it's shyness :snoop:

shyt's so stupid and embarrassing. I can talk to the baddest female in a room, confidently, almost cocky, AND get the number... but turn the scenario around and have her come up to me? :snoop: I'm like a fish out of water, 'blushing', all kinds of dumb shyt, swag completely gone.

It's never 'hurt' me or anything as far as getting the girl..but yeah..that's my reaction :pachaha: :snoop:

shyt's weird and I've never been able to overcome it.. but then again it's not like I get a helluva lot of practice either..
8s-10s rarely just "come onto me"..I usually always have to initiate.. but at least when I do it usually happens to go pretty well for me.
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I treat fine women like I treat anybody else....

don't place it on a pedestal brehs

fine chicks are the same as ugly chicks... the package might look a lil better, but I promise, what's inside is the same exact thing

I'm fearless outchea :win:

got a girl already, but that side position stay open :youngsabo:

just jokes, brehs, just jokes :whoa:


or not :shaq:





EDIT: :dahell: @ you brehs giving your wife your screenname and password

if my girl ever finds out I post on here, Imma have to request that my account and everything affiliated gets deleted :lupe:
 
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I shoot on fine chicks

if a fine woman came up to me, the initial conversation I'd just get her name and info

but when I call her, it's going to be some jokes mixed in the convo

"so on a scale of 9 to 10, you're a strong 6"

"so you single? :leostare: what's wrong with you? you one of dem crazy chicks?"
 
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