Your reaction when a fine chick BLATANTLY comes onto you

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Me ugly. No fine woman want me. Me never get approached. Me sad.

 

[beanz]

when i was younger i would get tongue tied even if all they wanted was the time.

now its like

 

[IDFWU]

I'm married. Ain't no chick finer than my wife..........

 

[Vilify]

I usually mess it up.

There's this really beautiful girl that works at a restaurant by my job. She's gorgeous looks like Esther Baxter in her prime. Everytime I saw her she was flirty and talkative. One time she was asking me how my weekend was and if I did anything. I asked her the same and she said her weekend was boring, she just moved here and didn't know many people.

She even asked if I knew any fun places to hang out. I started naming different spots but didn't have the balls to ask for her number.

Anyway for some reason I stopped going there for a few months. By the time I went back I found out she had a boyfriend. The dude was very average looking and worked at the barbershop next door. He favored Terelle Owens a little.

Lets just say I died a little bit that day.

 

[GuChiMeng]

Last time this happened I bytched out hard. Was regretting that shyt for weeeeeks. Fine ass asian waitress . I know she's supposed to be friendly and all, but she was really taking chit a step above with me compared to my friends.

And this doesn't happen to me often at all...

 

[unit321]

Im always skeptical like "what is this brawd really after"
This isnt an issue of self-esteem or self confidence, either.
We all know good looking women have it made in this world. They can get almost any dude they want at the snap of a finger while playing hard to get acting like they dont care for you at all.
But when a fine ass (8-10 in most peoples opinions) chick you thought you'd have no shot at blatantly comes onto you, whats your INITIAL reaction? Do you jump at the chance or proceed with caution like

I'm married so I brush it off.
There was this white woman with a bubble butt (i.e. legit black man's Kryptonite) asked if I was using a machine. I was like no and pretended she was just another person. So, on a scale of one to ten, her face is a 7 and body a 10. She ended up working at that gym as one of the employees so she's there on the regular.

 

[Suicide King]

Its usually older women 30+ that do this, so I won't be skeptical.

And in other cases they are married.

And the 3rd type is that young no-nonsense chick who probably had both parents at home, so her self-esteem and confidence is good.

My reaction is I treat it like lost treasure.

I've been approached enough times to not even get too excited. And in most cases they just want have fun, no games.

 

[Mr. Togo]

setup to be robbed

 

[karim]

In my experience, this usually backfires... Some females don't already like the fact that if you're in the upper echelon of male attractiveness, so they may want not to approach because it effects their self-esteem. Now, add in that because you are good-looking, you have no problems attracting women, which is not always true. Finally, they'll get over that soft rejection quick if there's someone that catches their eye. All you did was cock-block yourself(if that wasn't your intention).

The average and below pursue harder...

It worked for me so far. I'm not rude, I just let her know that it takes more for her to get my interest than her looks.

 

[Matt504]

setup to be robbed

came in here to say this

 

[Drones]

This happens to me sometimes and I'm not gonna lie, it'll throw me off if I'm not expecting it.

 

[Music Fiend]

I have a hard time telling the difference between flirting and regular convo with chicks I don't know well.

Like for real it's a problem.

My homies will litterally sit in the cut like and bring it up 15 minutes later like, you know she wanted to give you the draws. You just like nahhh bro you tripping, she's cool tho.


Then they'll say, what did she say when she came up to you, she just asked what gym i go to since I look like I go to the gym....

Nikkas just sitting there laughing, like this dude don't realize she wanted to him to work her out.

 

[TRFG]

I'm married so I brush it off.
There was this white woman with a bubble butt (i.e. legit black man's Kryptonite) asked if I was using a machine. I was like no and pretended she was just another person. So, on a scale of one to ten, her face is a 7 and body a 10. She ended up working at that gym as one of the employees so she's there on the regular.

Why do you think she was hitting on you?

 

[twan83]

Im always skeptical like "what is this brawd really after"

This isnt an issue of self-esteem or self confidence, either.

We all know good looking women have it made in this world. They can get almost any dude they want at the snap of a finger while playing hard to get acting like they dont care for you at all.

But when a fine ass (8-10 in most peoples opinions) chick you thought you'd have no shot at blatantly comes onto you, whats your INITIAL reaction? Do you jump at the chance or proceed with caution like

first off i dont have a mind process where i think i have no shot with a female at all. i always have a shot and i proven that already to myself to any other person who has doubt me

when a fine ass female comes up too me I'm the same way with her and any other female
hello
how are u doing

i dont need to look past that off the bat cuz its just the beginning of the convo as the convo goes along i'll have any idea of how she and what my opinion is of her thru the convo

if I'm interested i'll add to the team
if not she wont make it past the next sentence and i'll hit her with the and on to the next one

 

[unit321]

Why do you think she was hitting on you?

It was obvious I wasn't using the machine. I was using a machine near it and had just used it before she asked me. She also caught be eye-balling her truck-sized booty earlier on.