Your Successful Black Relationships

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Jmb4life said:
My short time here on the coli, I always see us hating and talking down on each other; pointing out flaws and how we fail as black men and women in regards to healthy relationships. Wanted to see if some of yall are actually in or have ever been in a good relationship with someone. Some of yall probably gon front, but we all have had that one chick or for my ladies, that one guy, whom have held us down.

Me and my girl been together since '11. I was in school (Alabama A&M) and slipped got a chick pregnant. Soon afterwards I met my current lady and we became friends but I knew she was feeling me so I told her straight up like yo I got a kid on the way, but me and the babys mom ain't really together like that. She understood and still would drive up to see me (bout a 2-3 hour drive). She would visit often, and even went out her way and mailed me a huge box of baby clothes and items on valentines day. Some time later, the chick miscarried and I was like :mjcry: but then I was like:blessed:. Can't even lie. I was devastated over the miscarriage (it was gon be a girl). But I was happy for another start and I HATED the babys moms anyway. Hooked right up with my girl and she been holding me down ever since. We just hit our 4 year anni today. Show ya boy some love. Ima Black King with a Black Queen. Where yall at?

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Congratulations on finding the person you are happy with..


Black love exists. More than the coli thinks. . But probably less than I think cause a lot of things are wrong in society spilling Into individual being the type of people you'd not want to be with.
So be the change you want to see. Be a better individual and hope that someone else is also doing the same same and that right there will lead to someone you can respect and love.
Again congrats. People saying there's plenty of L's in in your story but in the end you got the biggest victory
 
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My negus! :myman:

I don't under-stand why people are hating on this man. He made a mistake and learn from it. Why continue to throw petty insults?:childplease:

Any ways beautiful story! I hope you ask her the "question" if u know what i mean? @Jmb4life :myman:
 
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Medicate said:
What happened to the Black woman you skeeted in and dipped on? This is a feel good thread huh?, but has all sorts of L's in your story breh..........

You slipped up? The fck that happen? And she happens to "Miscarriage", meaning a black life gone and you "happy".....and happens to find another sister who looks great and innocent btw to fck with you? I can already see you doing her the same way....:camby:
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Me and the 1st chick was together for a min, and we were very physical. No protection. If you wanna know the full story, I did take a L but yeen know that she tried to trap me. Miscarried the baby in her first trimester (October) and didn't tell me until like 3-4 months later. I was so confused caused she was still getting big and everything So she was still looking pregnant. But I was 20 and ignorant. She knew I had wanted to move on so she tried to keep me around best way she could. I mourned the loss of my child homie. Don't get it twisted. I was just relieved that the 1st chick would now be completely removed from my life, no strings attached.

Me and my lady now have had some bumps and bruises along the way but you cant have a healthy relationship without those. We are 100% committed.
 
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