Cause it feels good
Your Successful Black Relationships
- Thread starter Archangel
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The 1st one got pregnant before I met my gf brah.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I know, I still think it's a loss dating a dude and driving hours to see him while he has another chick pregnant.
lmfao maybe that's just me though.
Cat piss martini
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good shyt kinfolk....
ive had two great ones in my life.
one is stationed over in japan and married now
and the other one was killed in rome by
a drunk driver years ago.
ive had two great ones in my life.
one is stationed over in japan and married now
and the other one was killed in rome by
a drunk driver years ago.
Kenny West
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Had a great one. I wasn't ready though. I appreciate her seeing my potential in spite of it being incredibly raw
Elle Driver
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Me too. Single/baby fathers are a no no.
So if you met a guy that met/exceeded your standards but had a kid by a girl he's no longer with, that would be a no go for you? @Juicy @Elle Driver
Elle Driver
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He's still fukking with her and has deep seeded feelings that he'll never let go of
NO. I'm not being no fukking step mom.
Thats messed up. I understand though. I just think its a double standard for a lot of single black fathers to be penalized for a mistake (not insinuating that the child is a mistake), whereas a lot of single black mothers out here still getting play and have guys willing to be a father to their child.
I mean like what if the guy and the mom are completely done with each other. The only thing that connects them is the child. No sex, friendly relationship or anything like that. Just cordial. I feel bad for guys who can't get play from woman because of that.
Elle Driver
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No it's not a double standard. I don't have kids therefore I will not play step mommy to a man who has children. His priority should be with his children and to find a woman with children.
The man I choose to be with doesn't have any kids, and if I plan on having kids it would be with him. If we end things, I'm not dating a man without kids either.
Why take a chance on losing it because you didn't lock it down?
Me: So, you been with your man for 5 years? How are things going?
Her: Okay, I just don't know if he wants anything more than this. I know I do.
Me: So, you're doing everything a wife does without any of the benefits of being one?
Her:
Me: And you've been doing it for 5 years. How much longer you gonna keep doing it?
Her:
Me:
After your conversation with her.....
Her: "We've been together 5 years and it's been good, but I'm ready to take the next step and if you're not then I will find somebody who will
Me:....
Her:
Me coming to find you........
Date a single mom then, don't push your child on a childless woman.
Single parents date single parents.