Your Successful Black Relationships

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Yeah man. When I was in school, I fooled around alot but as I matured, I felt like I was too old to be out here smashing anybody. Glad I settled down when I did. We got marriage and a fam on the pending list God willin.

That's the way to do it young blood... Lock her down while you're both young....... Smashing random chicks starts to leave a nikka feeling empty as he gets older..........

 

[Ashley Banks]

So if you met a guy that met/exceeded your standards but had a kid by a girl he's no longer with, that would be a no go for you? @Juicy @Elle Driver

Definitely a no go.

 

[Medicate]

Me too. Single/baby fathers are a no no.

These dumb nikkas in this thread don't see the BS behind this story tho, dudes on here trying to twist this dysfunctional ass story into some feel good Black Love story, this is far from how Black Love should Operate, but i'll let these little zombies cook.

And @VersaceSamurai swallow your neg fckboy..........

 

[Archangel]

These dumb nikkas in this thread don't see the BS behind this story tho, dudes on here trying to twist this dysfunctional ass story into some feel good Black Love story, this is far from how Black Love should Operate, but i'll let these little zombies cook.

And @VersaceSamurai swallow your neg fckboy..........

 

[How Sway?]

they don't hear you though
I find nothing to awe about in this story.

your avi

 

[Jimi Swagger]

NO. I'm not being no fukking step mom.

Or contributing hard earned funds to other woman's seed without a tax break or full authority to whoop ass. Dating a man with a child and the mom isnt dead is basically polgamy.

 

[KyokushinKarateMan]

All my exes have been black and I got love for all of em. No bad blood

That's where I'm at...I have nothing but Black ex's, no bad blood with any of them.

As far as 'successful' Black relationships, the current one I'm in has been going for almost 4 yrs now.

 

[Aceofspades404]

your avi

 

[jeh]

Did you tell her about the situation with your ex girlfriend? If so, how did she take it?

 

[Archangel]

Did you tell her about the situation with your ex girlfriend? If so, how did she take it?

You mean did I tell my current gf about my then baby mama? Yeah I did. I was straight up with her from the jump. She was upset, but still wanted to be cool with me.

 

[thaddman]

Congrats bro. Am single now but I was in a 4 yes relationship with a female that didn't know herself and it was hard dealing with someone like that. So when I see I successful relationship still going strong. All I can do is say Congrats. That's what's up

 

[Stacker Pentecost]

BW married to a BM here. Best relationship EVER

 

[DrX]

fukk these bytches man

 

[Youngblood Priest]

My short time here on the coli, I always see us hating and talking down on each other; pointing out flaws and how we fail as black men and women in regards to healthy relationships. Wanted to see if some of yall are actually in or have ever been in a good relationship with someone. Some of yall probably gon front, but we all have had that one chick or for my ladies, that one guy, whom have held us down.

Me and my girl been together since '11. I was in school (Alabama A&M) and slipped got a chick pregnant. Soon afterwards I met my current lady and we became friends but I knew she was feeling me so I told her straight up like yo I got a kid on the way, but me and the babys mom ain't really together like that. She understood and still would drive up to see me (bout a 2-3 hour drive). She would visit often, and even went out her way and mailed me a huge box of baby clothes and items on valentines day. Some time later, the chick miscarried and I was like but then I was like. Can't even lie. I was devastated over the miscarriage (it was gon be a girl). But I was happy for another start and I HATED the babys moms anyway. Hooked right up with my girl and she been holding me down ever since. We just hit our 4 year anni today. Show ya boy some love. Ima Black King with a Black Queen. Where yall at?

Edit: Some throwing me a lil shade for being 4 years in and not married. A wedding is in the future. Just no rush. We just wanna make sure we're financially and spiritually prepared because marriage just isn't saying "I do". I just turned 25 and she's 24. We're working on it fam.

This is how it should be.

 

[Tapp]

These dumb nikkas in this thread don't see the BS behind this story tho, dudes on here trying to twist this dysfunctional ass story into some feel good Black Love story, this is far from how Black Love should Operate, but i'll let these little zombies cook.

And @VersaceSamurai swallow your neg fckboy..........

What y'all mean, he said he was gonna take care of the kid. Lol and she didn't get with him till his bay'ma drama was over