“ You’re a nice guy but I don’t think there’s a connection”

[HabitualChiller]

This is why for a first meet I suggest a walk or you grab a coffee.

If you and her got chemistry then a walk or a coffee will reveal that. If she's not interested in that then she's not excited about you. And that's a non starter for me.

Taking broads out to the cinema or to eat blinds us as they can enjoy food and drink and entertainment then bounce.

A walk or a coffee focuses and strips down your interactions to you and her and no distraction.

Good tip. I have a date planned for tomorrow with a girl that, by all indications, is garbage, so you might have saved me a few bucks.

 

[Contrefaire]

If after a first date a broad tells you she doesn't feel a connection then she didn't feel a connection. Because that's what first dates are for: seeing if y'all have a connection. It doesn't say much more about you or her for that matter.

You said she gave you a 'weak ass excuse' but what reason did you really need beyond she wasn't feelin it? It happens . But there's also no need to keep yourself linked to her on social media. Block her and fully move tf on.