“ You’re a nice guy but I don’t think there’s a connection”

[JQ Legend]

It ain't social media these people always been there. They just more prominent because the ones who ain't on that shyt now posting all over social media all the time

How old are you?

 

[Afro]

Brah, when a girl gives you a reason why she don't want to fukk with you anymore its just a reason BUT it doesnt mean its the truth...Take it as she dont want to fukk with you and move on... People be dating a girl for 45 days and when they give a reason to distance themselves people try to reason and justify why this why that...They aint gonna tell you the truth put in your math and take the hint and meet someone else...God forbit something serious happens to you how would you handle it

OP and everybody, if a person isn't feeling you for any reason.......move on to the next.

Level of hurt expressed in these types of threads don't add up. Meet a woman, and she gives you the Heisman, then it's just what it is.

If being brushed off by new acquaintance bugs you, hate to see how you'd react to being betrayed by a longtime gf or wife.

I mean, can y’all not have some damn empathy and understand that not every dude has built up a resistance to those emotions?

You need to go through it a few times( depending on the dude of course) but it’s not like you flick a switch and it’s all good, damn

Let them go through the process, I know I am. I’m proud of the fact that I didn’t go off or start begging for approval, said my piece then made peace

Back on the online meat market I go

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

What is it with so many 30 something year olds that still have this juvenile mindset?

I see so many late 20s into 30 year olds that still act and talk like they're 17-22.

Like I thought we were suppose to be mature adults by now

Am I the only one that's noticed this?

Was it always like this?

the average "grown" person is jaded, miserable, and boring
almost all of them sound like cogs in a machine
I'm still trying to have my fun no matter what
no one wants to lose their spark

"growing" up and behaving how everyone expects people to act by a certain age represents the end of fun and being a boring dry adult for many people
that's depressing and represents death in many people's minds and hearts and some people aren't built for the average treadmill adult life they need something more to function

I've noticed people who look young/baby faced follow the stay young forever philosophy or those who had too much fun in their youth and are welcomed to the average sheep of a person and their lack of joy while those who look like they should be someone's mother or father are on that grown folk talk

SO MANY people become too adult and forget how to have fun because they are grown stay the fukk away from me
That's what people are trying to avoid but everyone eventually flames out and becomes an adult, some are trying to extend their fun for as long as they can before they become too to fit in the scenes they want to fit in to have the type of fun they want
Might as well or you will regret it when you are bored out of your mind when you are
jealous of all the things you missed out on when you were younger

 

[Jaylen Tatum]

You kissed her after eating tacos?

 

[Flywin Lannister]

edit this is a spin from the tik tok nice guy thread…made me think of it..


We all been there before(well regular gang) …whens the last time a broad told u that? And how did u react

before covid hit i went on a date with a 34 year old…met her from OKCUPID…Saw a movie…ate some tacos…made out in the parking lot for a while and days later she started actn distant…i basically out her on the spot on got some weak ass excuse nice guy…blah blah…turns out she had major daddy issues(she talked about it on date)…regular car…her n her 4 siblings stays with her mom in a aprtment

Few months later met my current who 28,great job,2021 far and her own spot

life is crazy…i be postn us doing fun shyt,..for valentines i got her some stuff…that other bytch was reasinh all my insta stories as soon as i post them …

A lot of feminine energy in here from op


You check if some lame chick you met once saw your stories..?


Focus on your new girl. Cut off the old girl fully.

 

[WaveGang]

[18:54, 12/11/2021] Wavegang: I fell asleep
[19:04, 12/11/2021] La-teffa: We really don't have much in common huh
[19:04, 12/11/2021] La-teffa: As amazing as you are x

Just woke up to this.. I'd be a liar if I said I care, met her on hinge n she lives in another country, smashed on the first date. And once last week.

I wanna send a bad mind reply but bad energy worth something so I'll probably send the wiz khalif shrug gif lol

 

[RiffRaff]

Y'all out here kissing hoes on the first date??

And fukkin raw

 

[Chrishaune]

Means she ain't attracted to you or there's somebody else she's thinking about. Don't even go any deeper than that. A woman is not cutting off any breh she is attracted to and at the same time she's single. She is going to leave the door cracked open and let you move in for the kill. If she cuts it all the way off, don't even waste your time.

She's got too much baggage from life at 34. A younger woman will be more free.

 

[buzzkill]

I haven't had that in a long time.

I have had girls cancel dates or ghost cuz they realized I'm not on the b.s. they on

Usually I go for smashing on the first date because it's always a toss up if you gonna hear from them again anyways. Might as well try to see how far u can get early.

Maybe she thought u were soft for not trying to fukk or she ain't that sexually attracted to u. Who cares though

 

[MollyGalaga]

I didn’t say it wasn’t but it’s immature and insecure/bitter as hell.

People feel hella entitled out here and it’s not that serious.

Why focus on someone who doesn’t want you? When I’m sure you’ve done the same to someone else?

I didn't mean to tho

 

[MajesticLion]

fellas seriously out here tap dancing and throwing jazz hands to entertain the childish
and then turning around and emulating the childishness to try shoring up their self esteem
she watched your "insta stories" so the fck what

 

[Software]

How old are you?

Why?

 

[JQ Legend]

Why?

Based on what you said and this sassy response, you wasn’t born in the 80s and aren’t old enough to remember the 90s to speak on it.

 

[Software]

Based on what you said and this sassy response, you wasn’t born in the 80s and aren’t old enough to remember the 90s to speak on it.

@Krisrunner2049 exhibit A

 

[JQ Legend]

@Krisrunner2049 exhibit A

You’re that early 20s poster who get in your feelings whenever people point out how soft some of y’all are, constantly defending social media. You prolly wasn’t even 5 when the year 2000 hit, how could you know what 20 year olds were like in the 80s and 90s?