“ You’re a nice guy but I don’t think there’s a connection”

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damn, that actually hurt
 

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edit this is a spin from the tik tok nice guy thread…made me think of it..


We all been there before(well regular gang) …whens the last time a broad told u that? And how did u react

before covid hit i went on a date with a 34 year old…met her from OKCUPID…Saw a movie…ate some tacos…made out in the parking lot for a while and days later she started actn distant…i basically out her on the spot on got some weak ass excuse nice guy…blah blah…turns out she had major daddy issues(she talked about it on date)…regular car…her n her 4 siblings stays with her mom in a aprtment

Few months later met my current who 28,great job,2021 far and her own spot

life is crazy:wow:…i be postn us doing fun shyt,..for valentines i got her some stuff…that other bytch was reasinh all my insta stories as soon as i post them :umad:

Brah, when a girl gives you a reason why she don't want to fukk with you anymore its just a reason BUT it doesnt mean its the truth...Take it as she dont want to fukk with you and move on... People be dating a girl for 45 days and when they give a reason to distance themselves people try to reason and justify why this why that...They aint gonna tell you the truth put in your math and take the hint and meet someone else...God forbit something serious happens to you how would you handle it
 

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What is it with so many 30 something year olds that still have this juvenile mindset?:why:

I see so many late 20s into 30 year olds that still act and talk like they're 17-22.

Like I thought we were suppose to be mature adults by now:gucci:

Am I the only one that's noticed this?

Was it always like this?

Ita social media that slowed down the maturity aspect of people. Nowadays, most people behave a good 10 to 15 years younger than they actually are. Got 30 something year old chicks thinking that they are 22 years old and fertile, got middle aged dudes talking about "hustling" with visible grey hair.
 

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edit this is a spin from the tik tok nice guy thread…made me think of it..


We all been there before(well regular gang) …whens the last time a broad told u that? And how did u react

before covid hit i went on a date with a 34 year old…met her from OKCUPID…Saw a movie…ate some tacos…made out in the parking lot for a while and days later she started actn distant…i basically out her on the spot on got some weak ass excuse nice guy…blah blah…turns out she had major daddy issues(she talked about it on date)…regular car…her n her 4 siblings stays with her mom in a aprtment

Few months later met my current who 28,great job,2021 far and her own spot

life is crazy:wow:…i be postn us doing fun shyt,..for valentines i got her some stuff…that other bytch was reasinh all my insta stories as soon as i post them :umad:
She felt the bulge while y'all were kissing and wasn't Impressed brother.

Now had you known Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu she would have given you a pass and let you impregnate on the first date, not put you on child support and would attempt to kill you if you tried to leave her.

You dodged a bullet.
 
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Only heard it once.

But I'd already beat :lolbron:
She started dating a bud dealer, but me and him ended up being cool because I was offering him mentorship and guidance :wow:
 

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regardless what the real reason is she don't want you so move on :unimpressed:
1st dates are like job interviews. You should try your best, but leave the situation knowing they not going be real with you in the moment. Never get caught up on how "good it went" and leave realizing you might not ever hear from them again
 

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OP and everybody, if a person isn't feeling you for any reason.......move on to the next.

Level of hurt expressed in these types of threads don't add up. Meet a woman, and she gives you the Heisman, then it's just what it is.

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If being brushed off by new acquaintance bugs you, hate to see how you'd react to being betrayed by a longtime gf or wife.
 
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What is it with so many 30 something year olds that still have this juvenile mindset?:why:

I see so many late 20s into 30 year olds that still act and talk like they're 17-22.

Like I thought we were suppose to be mature adults by now:gucci:

Am I the only one that's noticed this?

Was it always like this?

Definitely wasn’t always like this breh

You can see the proof in some of the greatest rappers from the 80s and 90s like Nas, Rakim etc.

These dudes were late teens/early 20s making some of the most prolific songs. Back then you were a grown ass adult by the time you hit 18, 19 the absolute latest. 20 year olds conducted themselves like full grown adults.

Nowadays you got 25+ year olds looking, dressing and acting like they’re still in high school :gucci:
 

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Ita social media that slowed down the maturity aspect of people. Nowadays, most people behave a good 10 to 15 years younger than they actually are. Got 30 something year old chicks thinking that they are 22 years old and fertile, got middle aged dudes talking about "hustling" with visible grey hair.
It ain't social media these people always been there. They just more prominent because the ones who ain't on that shyt now posting all over social media all the time
 

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similar thing happened to my bestie. he was desperate for a relationship after breaking up with his ex last year so this year he was on all the apps going on hella dates. he matches this one girl who was ok. takes her out for dinner (also mexican food), goes to the parking lot and slobs her down. he got a "thanks for a good time" text, then a few days later she explained that the kissing was too much/didn't do it for her or some shyt like that.

i told him she probably just used you for food (i was trolling him), but maybe the kiss actually did get her off the fence in regard to potential luke warm feelings for him.
sometimes a kiss will do that

maybe try building actual connection before rushing into tonguing a bytch down :yeshrug:

but then a few weeks later he went with another match he got and now they are moving in together lolol. hope it works out :huhldup:

but he sure as hell aint thinking about old girl :huhldup:

idk what i would read into her liking your social media stories because im not on social media. but i do keep in phone contact with old guys that i thought were cool. it's not cuz i like them and regret my decision...... its cuz i think they are cool lol

tldr: its ok to be a nice guy, even if you dont get the p*ssy

Seems like going out for Mexican food is some sort of curse :mjlol:

Similar shyt happened to me last weekend. I thought I hit it off with a match from Tinder and we met up at a Mexican restaurant. Seemed like we hit it off and afterwards, she started responding to my texts quicker than before me met. Made plans to chill this weekend.

Then I found myself having to double text her. I did it once, pretty sure she woulda responded if I did it again but I kept it moving.

Wonder if it was the Mexican food? :jbhmm:
 
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