i actually had a discussion w/a white co-worker about this once after he'd mentioned he grew up in a trailer park community during a political debate...
talking about the "giving back" phenomenon that we spew
the whole time he was like this
40+ year old white dude had never heard this concept..
said that he knew some people from his impoverished neighborhood that were very successful even though they came up where they did
it's just normal for them...the people from his community don't care nor are they looking for something from him.
everybody doesn't think like we do on issues...at some point you have to look out for yourself.