People are socially awkward, don't have an outlook on life past 5 years, and lie to much over stupid sh*t. Add to that, that modern day humans are pleasure seekers and don't know how to compromise.
Everything is modeled towards not being in relationships, yet people are fooling themselves that they want one.
I suggested to people who have relationship problems to keep their business off social media, both men and women. They can't do it. Attention seeking people don't need to be relationships. Stop wasting your time, its not worth it.