Black Engineer advice to young men: Don't date seriously until you're 30

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I remember one older engineer breh told some of us......get you a women who an engineer or in college studying engineering too. Yall can piggy back off each other help get each other on jobs.

Them asians do this shyt all the fukking time.

Plus you both will make good money and you can pool your money together and do more with it.
 
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He is right.

You don't get to experience the "college experience" unless you want to fail in engineering. I mean you can have a girlfriend but she has to understand school is the priority and if she is in an easier major, she may need to get used to that.

For me, I went back to school for my degree at a later age so that wasn't really an issue, but you really have little time for anything else.
 

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He's right.

Dr. Francis Cress Welsing said something similar but that was in regards to marriage.

Your 20s is to grow and figure out what you want to do in life, and make a few mistakes. By the time you're 30 you should know how you want to live your life, and working on establishing yourself.
 

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I think everyone should just do what makes them happy whether that is get married or focus on their career.

My now wife motivated me to get a better job because I wanted to be in a position where we would live a better life and I could take care of her if we ever had kids and she needed to take off of work for some time so we basically grew up together and now have good careers and support each other through it all. I been wifed up since 25. Kind of hard to believe sometimes.
 

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I rather an engineer or finance bae :banderas:

Engineering I get but Finance ? :scust:

I think everyone should just do what makes them happy whether that is get married or focus on their career.

WOAT advice if anything people need to steer away from what makes them happy right now and think longer term

My now wife motivated me to get a better job because I wanted to be in a position where we would live a better life and I could take care of her if we ever had kids and she needed to take off of work for some time so we basically grew up together and now have good careers and support each other through it all. I been wifed up since 25. Kind of hard to believe sometimes.

You'll get extra motivation if she files them papers :gmbrehs:
 
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