Black Engineer advice to young men: Don't date seriously until you're 30

[Bigblackted4]

The problem with this is you nevrr develop the skills to get a woman for who you are all you have now is your money and career. If you gone wait until 30 you need to be doing some pretty dope shyt and become a very dope person or you’ll instantly just be a security blanket for woman instead of a lover.

 

[UpAndComing]

Engineering I get but Finance ?

Why . I don't mind girls who are Accountants, Financial Analysts/Advisors, Auditors, Brokers, Underwriters, Bankers, etc etc

In your opinion what's wrong with a girl in Finance?

 

[BLΔCK⁂W⊙LF]

The problem with this is you nevrr develop the skills to get a woman for who you are all you have now is your money and career. If you gone wait until 30 you need to be doing some pretty dope shyt and become a very dope person or you’ll instantly just be a security blanket for woman instead of a lover.

I took it to mean not making women a priority like a lot of guys tend to do. Not marrying and making your career the number 1 focus. You should still date and the like.

 

[Originalman]

Why . I don't mind girls who are Accountants, Financial Analysts/Advisors, Auditors, Brokers, Underwriters, Bankers, etc etc

In your opinion what's wrong with a girl in Finance?

Ain't nothing wrong with having a woman who understands money. You rather that than have a women would doesn't know shyt about money.

 

[Cynic]

The problem with this is you nevrr develop the skills to get a woman for who you are all you have now is your money and career. If you gone wait until 30 you need to be doing some pretty dope shyt and become a very dope person or you’ll instantly just be a security blanket for woman instead of a lover.

N!ggas still believe this myth ? Women only care about what you can do for them.
We are nothing but utilities to them and they've been taught this since toddlerhood.

Men of means don't have an expiry date in terms of attractiveness... so what is this "never develop skills" shyt ?

 

[Thanos]

Don't make women a priority is nothing new.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

Get you a medical school bae.

300k student loan?

 

[Cynic]

Why . I don't mind girls who are Accountants, Financial Analysts/Advisors, Auditors, Brokers, Underwriters, Bankers, etc etc

In your opinion what's wrong with a girl in Finance?

Dated several and they are the worst... second only to lawyers

The entitlement and humble braggin from these women is just terrible...

I had an incident where one of them did some real shady shyt and I caught her red handed.
This is all after sh!tting on me for not having a PHD even though my income dwarfed hers by
miles.

These spinsters are to be pumped and dumped and never dealt with again

 

[Shorty K]

N!ggas still believe this myth ? Women only care about what you can do for them.
We are nothing but utilities to them and they've been taught this since toddlerhood.

Men of means don't have an expiry date in terms of attractiveness... so what is this "never develop skills" shyt ?

Straight loser nikka rhetoric. Loser nikkas ALWAYS try to find ways to take your focus off the mission for some fleeting short term pleasure. This short term nikka really tried to say an engineer making 6 figures won't have the skills to pick up women if they focus on the grind instead of the birds

 

[Ohene]

this is real ass shyt...applies to not just engineering

 

[Bledswole]

Live your life man

Taking all this advice from this person and that person

This instagram post,that instagram post

Just live your life and decide what's best for you

 

[Arithmetic]

300k student loan?

Get you a public medical school Bae then

 

[Music Fiend]

The problem with this is you nevrr develop the skills to get a woman for who you are all you have now is your money and career. If you gone wait until 30 you need to be doing some pretty dope shyt and become a very dope person or you’ll instantly just be a security blanket for woman instead of a lover.

facts.

It doesn't matter when you look for a woman. What matters is you spend your 20 on self-building. I know too many nikkas in their 30s tryna settle down and because they never experienced real adult relationships, they don't even know how to be. nikkas be 30 after having fun, and settle into some boring ass nikka.

its about balance. Date, smash women, have a few girlfriends... but stay consistent in pushing for what you want and improving your financial and social life, and breaking your insecurities. Life is a job, the more experience the better you are.

 

[Ohene]

i watched the whole vid as as somebody who works in accounting/finance i say it almost all applies

 

[Ohene]

The problem with this is you nevrr develop the skills to get a woman for who you are all you have now is your money and career. If you gone wait until 30 you need to be doing some pretty dope shyt and become a very dope person or you’ll instantly just be a security blanket for woman instead of a lover.

and thats what the gentleman in the video said

he said between 22-30..if you hold off youll have so much money and so much wisdom/experience that when you talk to ppl they will be that much more intrigued/interested. they will gravitate towards you

but you have a wifey and kids when you 25 or so...you aint taking them trips or having the time to better yourself. it is what it is