Black Engineer advice to young men: Don't date seriously until you're 30

[NegaDuck]

The problem with this is you nevrr develop the skills to get a woman for who you are all you have now is your money and career. If you gone wait until 30 you need to be doing some pretty dope shyt and become a very dope person or you’ll instantly just be a security blanket for woman instead of a lover.

Facts.

This advice is gonna birth some rich ass simps and then they gonna wanna hate ass hoes after that get got.

This is actually good advice...but you HAVE to get real world experience with women of the world at the same time.

 

[Shadow King]

What is the definition of "date seriously"? When this is said, it leaves the door to think that brehs that immersed in the studies/career pursuits are supposed to make room for "casual dating" (sex) but if you aren't scraping the barrel's bottom you better have your aestheticsay on point/look the engineering money part. Otherwise it's hard sell.

didn't see a ring on his finger. not smart to take advice like that from single people.

So if a person is not married their relationship experience has no value?

 

[Bigblackted4]

Facts.

This advice is gonna birth some rich ass simps and then they gonna wanna hate ass hoes after that get got.

This is actually good advice...but you HAVE to get real world experience with women of the world at the same time.

Exactly can’t be one or the other

 

[Mr Rager]

Agree and disagree.

It does make sense to get establish before you go off looking for wifey. But if you meet the perfect woman at 25 and things go well, realistically she probably won't be willing to wait 5 years for you to grow up.

Case by case basis.

This. I'm glad I met the perfect woman for me...but I do wish I had met her a little later

 

[Shadow King]

N!ggas still believe this myth ? Women only care about what you can do for them.
We are nothing but utilities to them and they've been taught this since toddlerhood.

Men of means don't have an expiry date in terms of attractiveness... so what is this "never develop skills" shyt ?

Basically nikkas will be balling but getting finessed and trapped.

 

[13473]

So if a person is not married their relationship experience has no value?

Would u want your wife/gf to take advice from her single friends about your relationship? no. they aren't in a psoition to give advice because they haven't successfully achieved what they're giving advice on and they have no idea if their advice is right for anyone (including themselves).

 

[Cynic]

Breh where are you getting this from? There are a bunch of black male and female engineers.

Even if you can't find any you can go to a NSBE conference and get the pick of the litter.

Yeah I read this like wtf ? Nigerian students alone are rife in this industry ...sisters too

 

[Ohene]

Facts.

This advice is gonna birth some rich ass simps and then they gonna wanna hate ass hoes after that get got.

This is actually good advice...but you HAVE to get real world experience with women of the world at the same time.

i highly doubt he means to not deal with women at all...he just means dont settle down

 

[Cynic]

Facts.

This advice is gonna birth some rich ass simps and then they gonna wanna hate ass hoes after that get got.

This is actually good advice...but you HAVE to get real world experience with women of the world at the same time.

The alternative creates broke simps who don't realize their potential and become bitter due to less options

Also, is getting got not "real world experience" ?

 

[Shadow King]

Would u want your wife/gf to take advice from her single friends about your relationship? no. they aren't in a psoition to give advice because they haven't successfully achieved what they're giving advice on and they have no idea if their advice is right for anyone (including themselves).

To say this means a person has complete control of a situation involving another person. They could be what the opposite sex considers a "catch" and a good person but their relationships haven't worked for various reasons. Or that person doesn't want marriage.

And married =/= happy necessarily so by shrinking your advice pool to just them you could be taking advice from people in miserable situations...same as single people. Sound advice is sound advice no matter who it's from.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Your 20s is to grow and figure out what you want to do in life,

Nah... that's actually American bullshyt...... You don't put an age on figuring out what you want to be..... its called remaining in an adolescent state until your mid 30s....... which is childish within itself....

 

[Cynic]

Nah... that's actually American bullshyt...... You don't put an age on figuring out what you want to be..... its called remaining in an adolescent state until your mid 30s....... which is childish within itself....

Childish to who ?

Go visit any nursing home and talk to people in their 70s and 80s and 90s ...

Would you rather spend 50-60-70 years being "grown" or have more "adolescent" time ?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Childish to who ?

Go visit any nursing home and talk to people in their 70s and 80s and 90s ...

Would you rather spend 50-60-70 years being "grown" or have more "adolescent" time ?

This doesn't make a whole lotta sense... what exactly do you mean....?? You mean not having to be responsible for anything or anyone until you're 40?

 

[horizon]

Engineering?

That's nerd shyt, better get you some street smarts

 

[JLova]

I'd have to agree.