nikka shut up I can name 7 black women off the top of my head with engineering degrees.
And I'm talking to a fine black girl right now with IT certs.
Black Engineer advice to young men: Don't date seriously until you're 30
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nikka shut up I can name 7 black women off the top of my head with engineering degrees.
And I'm talking to a fine black girl right now with IT certs.
Terrible advice.
BrokePhiBroke
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Men who keep telling other men to wait later and later to marry and have kids.
Don't get me wrong, one should ONLY marry and make a family if they are ready. But this is what women have to deal with. Waiting, waiting, and more waiting ...
YET....
We are told we are old hags by 30 if we aren't "married" 
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Don't get me wrong, one should ONLY marry and make a family if they are ready. But this is what women have to deal with. Waiting, waiting, and more waiting ...
YET....
We are told we are old hags by 30
if we aren't "married" ...
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Men who keep telling other men to wait later and later to marry and have kids.
Don't get me wrong, one should ONLY marry and make a family if they are ready. But this is what women have to deal with. Waiting, waiting, and more waiting ...
YET....
We are told we are old hags by 30
By dusty nikkas with no future. I personally like older women.
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Where did I say that ?
Men who keep telling other men to wait later and later to marry and have kids.
Don't get me wrong, one should ONLY marry and make a family if they are ready. But this is what women have to deal with. Waiting, waiting, and more waiting ...
YET....
We are told we are old hags by 30
Mens value goes up with age in terms of earning potential ... women declines in terms of looks and fertility
Even the guys over 40-50 are chasing women in their 20s
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Men who keep telling other men to wait later and later to marry and have kids.
Don't get me wrong, one should ONLY marry and make a family if they are ready. But this is what women have to deal with. Waiting, waiting, and more waiting ...
YET....
We are told we are old hags by 30
Black men in pursuit of higher education and career goals have to tread much more carefully than you think.
I nearly got derailed out of school two times by overzealous professors and had a white chief resident try to get me fired constantly. It's about ensured stability, I didn't even start seriously dating again till I was 34.
Ashley Banks
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I love how everyone tells men and women the complete opposite, then shyt on women when they're single. 
for women it's get married before you're 30 and men it's use women until you're 30 then be serious.
for women it's get married before you're 30 and men it's use women until you're 30 then be serious. 
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I love how everyone tells men and women the complete opposite, then shyt on women when they're single.
Or maybe...... the ages coincide if the man is older and the woman is younger?
Ashley Banks
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Or maybe...... the ages coincide if the man is older and the woman is younger?
relationships with big age gaps don't last though. it's like you guys are setting everyone up for failure. Well I guess the men the benefit. Get to treat ppl that love you/like you like they're disposable because you're not 30 yet. While women either get used by the men they care about or have to date creepy old men.
advice from a person with experience and success> advice from a person with experience who failed>advice from a person with no experience on the topic
UpAndComing
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Who said big age gaps? A guy can be 31 (over 30), and a girl can be 26 (under 30). You're thinking too much
BrokePhiBroke
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OkWhere did I say that ?
Mens value goes up with age in terms of earning potential ... women declines in terms of looks and fertility
Even the guys over 40-50 are chasing women in their 20s
Field Marshall Bradley
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Where did I say that ?
It has a question mark behind it... Your statement wasn't clear so I was asking for clarification...... You just answered my question with a question....
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do what feels right for you