Lol, barely read it
Which is why i included what you should do if they are not supporting you.
Good luck with your issue.
Brehs, I would love your advice. pls help. PLEASE (story inside)
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Which is why i included what you should do if they are not supporting you.
Good luck with your issue.
I would spill the beans. The way they treated you, if that was me id like fukk them, honestly it sounds to me like shyt gonna hit the fan either way eventually whether you tell your aunts or not. So you might as well tell them that way they can step in help.
yea naijas be trippin i wish some family members besides my parents wld put they hands on me, all dat shyt dead africans always trynna control they kids and live through them, shyt made me resent them for a while growing up. always comparing to other people kids like you want them as your child instead but critique them as parents and they actin like u just hit them smh. do you OP like seriously no offense but fukk ur family u already got a scholarship so u dnt need them no more and ur and adult so mght as welll prepare for the solo life. hopefully u break the silly traditions with ur own kids. @ThiefyPoo u african 
To add insult to injury (LITERALLY 
), my mom hands me a new pair of shoes and states that "I'd rather have you be a model, because you'll make more money that you ever will working in agriculture." 
ma dukes w that ether tho
), my mom hands me a new pair of shoes and states that "I'd rather have you be a model, because you'll make more money that you ever will working in agriculture." ma dukes w that ether thoSuper Senior tho 
eternalpangs
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Super Senior tho
its all paid for. room, board, tuition.
plus im connected to research on campus. academics arent hard for me, and i just finished my core classes (last being honors biochemistry II) and im taking computer sciences classes for the knowledge and resume buff
plus im close to publishing research. and, finally, it keeps me in a stable envrionment.
im making several connections with deans, professors, andr chairs, and im looking at graduate school. and i love to learn so classes arent a problem.
wouldnt you stay in school for an extra yr if it was practically FREE?
4North1Side2
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Your family is toxic and add 0 value to your life. Do what's in your best interest and stop contact with them. They don't love you, they are very selfish and only care about how they feel, not you.
CarbonBraddock
You will be trolled
a black person with a 3.5 is gold to med-school committees, even below that and they are good if that mcat is high enough
eternalpangs
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he was prob. trolling.
i ignored him
Jean Jacket
NOPE
Why keep secrets? You are grown.
Wish my fam would have beat my ass before I made a stupid move.
You're a girl so it's a lot different.
People need to realize that this "asians are smart" myth is actually parenting like yours.
Wish my fam would have beat my ass before I made a stupid move.
You're a girl so it's a lot different.
People need to realize that this "asians are smart" myth is actually parenting like yours.
fukk. This is rough. Tell your aunts the truth you getting the Cinderella treatment.
Wait maybe not. Cause if your mom is really sick she's gonna need taking care of.
Wait maybe not. Cause if your mom is really sick she's gonna need taking care of.
nevermind
I know these feels...gonna have to leave your parents op that is literally the only option