Cac pastor tells women to stay attractive so men will not stray

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Tell women the truth and watch how they act
 

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But WHY must he throw men under the bus too, just to make his message more palatable? :francis:

Why can't women be told the TRUTH without losing their minds :mjpls:

For some it isnt the truth..there is more to infidelity than just one not keeping up their appearance.

There are ways of delivering a better message then insulting a entire group of women (i.e. trophy wife/Stanley cup line, aiming to be Melania trump)
 

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Why the hell is it that nothing can ever be directed at women exclusively?

It's either just men or both is the only acceptable thing. This would've garnered a completely different result if he told men what they needed to do to keep a woman happy

It could've been but his message was way off imo. For one he is a pastor saying that if women can't look like a trophy wife at least look like a participation trophy....he should've known better as a pastor because he is objectifying married women
 

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I'm sure he criticized men in his sermons as a lot of pastors do, and he never felt the need to turn a man specific argument into a 'well both of you guys do it.' If he said men, you need to man up, keep a job, take care of the household and lead the family and not sit around on videogames all day, he wouldn't have been fired? No, the audience would be clapping. Now, we have to pander to utterly insane feminists who don't want to be held to ANY standard or else they are going to cry to get people fired.

None of that has to do with ones physical appearance.
 

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The fact that most of yall are agreeing really does say something bad about humanity as a whole. Most people are impulsive and honestly stupid.

You're married to someone your whole life, you're expecting to spend your 70s and over with your wife. Science says over time women (people really) become a lot less attractive and it's not their fault. People age.

And then on top of that, he's supposed to be a man of God. The bible says infidelity and ending marriages is a sin, yet he's justifying actions that are considered a sin in his religion...during his sermon.

Don't get married if you don't wanna do marriage. And don't claim to be a man of god if you don't want to follow god. Seems simple to me.
 

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That's the problem with modern day churches. You aren't supposed to go to church to 'hear what you want'.

2 Timothy 4
3 For the time is coming when [people] will not tolerate (endure) sound and wholesome instruction, but, having ears itching [for something pleasing and gratifying], they will gather to themselves one teacher after another to a considerable number, chosen to satisfy their own liking and to foster the errors they hold,
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None of that has to do with ones physical appearance.

Even if he criticized something nonphysical, he'd still be met with the same criticism. If he said "Well, women, you need to stop nagging your man when he gets home and have dinner ready", that would have been taken even worse. This is why most modern churches are filled with women with men nowhere to be seen. Most of these pastors have gotten to the point where they are compromising the truth to cater to women who give more tithes and offerings.
 

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The fact that most of yall are agreeing really does say something bad about humanity as a whole. Most people are impulsive and honestly stupid.

You're married to someone your whole life, you're expecting to spend your 70s and over with your wife. Science says over time women (people really) become a lot less attractive and it's not their fault. People age.

And then on top of that, he's supposed to be a man of God. The bible says infidelity and ending marriages is a sin, yet he's justifying actions that are considered a sin in his religion...during his sermon.

Don't get married if you don't wanna do marriage. And don't claim to be a man of god if you don't want to follow god. Seems simple to me.
Aaaah the old moving of the goal posts.

Breh we are NOT talking about aging, ain't no one said they want their 70 year old wife to do the "buss it" challenge.

From ages 20-55 a black person can remain in very good shape if they make the correct diet and exercise/fitness choices. It takes work, dedication, sacrifice, but you will deifinately look young and attractive if you follow a DISCIPLINED diet and training regiment.

The pastor is talking specifically about people who marry and within less than a decade are fast slobs.

That's a very slick move you tried to pull.
Are you a woman? :francis::mjlol:
 

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Even if he criticized something nonphysical, he'd still be met with the same criticism. If he said "Well, women, you need to stop nagging your man when he gets home and have dinner ready", that would have been taken even worse. This is why most modern churches are filled with women with men nowhere to be seen. Most of these pastors have gotten to the point where they are compromising the truth to cater to women who give more tithes and offerings.
i recommend people try an orthodox liturgy atleast once in their lives

a change of perspective is needed for many christian believers imo
 

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Aaaah the old moving of the goal posts.

Breh we are NOT talking about aging, ain't no one said they want their 70 year old wife to do the "buss it" challenge.

From ages 20-55 a black person can remain in very good shape if they make the correct diet and exercise/fitness choices. It takes work, dedication, sacrifice, but you will deifinately look young and attractive if you follow a DISCIPLINED diet and training regiment.

The pastor is talking specifically about people who marry and within less than a decade are fast slobs.

That's a very slick move you tried to pull.
Are you a woman? :francis::mjlol:
The bible says infidelities are a sin, the bible says ending marriages are a sin..why is a pastor justifying sin?

Yall always have the right argument for some wrong shyt
 
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