Daughter kills herself after Father cuts her hair and posts online

[the cac mamba]

first of all, people are saying dude did it to get 15 mins of fame? i didnt get that sense at all i jus thought he was goin for a punishment

also, thats some fukked up shyt to do to a girl that age, dude is a fukkin idiot

 

[JordanwiththeWiz]

I think most people are addressing the issue regarding "parenting" for social media likes and the obvious drawbacks that its proponents chose to disregard. A girl that age could be weak minded while not suffering from a depression. That point is made by knowing that a girl that age are subject to their emotions more-so than any age group/gender group in the human lifespan. She could have been depressed beforehand, sure. She also could not have been and became so in a dramatically short about of time, which would make her unstable enough to do this. I don't know her to made this assumption, so I choose not to base my opinion on it. This is about more the father's actions, not the daughter's comparative to others.

I agree you and some of the others about parenting but my point is still the same. She was not emotional stable my point is it's more to this story then this one event she probably already depressed needed to talk to somebody but didn't this was the final straw. In her final moments of life she probably felt hopeless, helpless and viewed life as pointless at THAT MOMENT she needed somebody. She needed somebody to tell her this is temporary what you are doing is permanent. It is a light at the end of the tunnel you can overcome this. That's my point of being emotional unstable.

 

[Paper Boi]

first of all, people are saying dude did it to get 15 mins of fame? i didnt get that sense at all i jus thought he was goin for a punishment

also, thats some fukked up shyt to do to a girl that age, dude is a fukkin idiot

then why did he post it on social media?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Why is it ok to cut a boys hair to humiliate him but not to cut a girls hair to humiliate her

You serious?

 

[GoPro]

So yall taking the one act of suicide as justifiable condemnation of a particular style of parenting?

Too much unlogic in here

Edit: When i was younger, my moms literally chased me down the street with a belt in front of all my people. I didn't commit suicide from their ribbing, and man didi get ribbed .

Kids commit that every day for any number of reasons

 

[the cac mamba]

then why did he post it on social media?

to humiliate her, not be the 'star'

hey maybe im wrong, all i said was that was the sense i got

 

[606onit]

Im standing my ground for consistency. The dad was right.

the girl was 13. yall acting like she was a fully grown rational adult.

Girls mature faster .
Especially in the US.

 

[88m3]

Good Parenting Tho Right Brehs?

 

[1stPick]

So yall taking the one act of suicide as justifiable condemnation of a particular style of parenting?

Too much unlogic in here

No, that particular style of parenting is fukked up under ANY context

Keep your personal business/family matters in house.

 

[KinksandCoils]

I agree you and some of the others about parenting but my point is still the same. She was not emotional stable my point is it's more to this story then this one event she probably already depressed needed to talk to somebody but didn't this was the final straw. In her final moments of life she probably felt hopeless, helpless and viewed life as pointless at THAT MOMENT she needed somebody. She needed somebody to tell her this is temporary what you are doing is permanent. It is a light at the end of the tunnel you can overcome this. That's my point of being emotional unstable.

exactly

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Keep your personal business/family matters in house

Pretty much......

 

[Ronnie Lott]

You serious?

Answer the question please

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Answer the question please

A young girl's hair is intrinsically and historically tied to her beauty, which is directly tied to her confidence and self esteem..... You don't destroy a kid's self esteem, and then blast it in front of millions...

and obviously, there is much more than meets the eye in this young lady's situation.... there may have been an actual pattern of abuse...

abuse =/= punishment or instill discipline

Those lil nikkas getting the George Jeff cut is an embarrassing punishment..... no more no less...

The fact you're trying to insinuate that boys should be raised the same way as girls is telling.......

 

[Nintendough]

So society shuns a good ass whopping in privacy but promotes public embarrassment as good parenting.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

A young girl's hair is intrinsically and historically tied to her beauty, which is directly tied to her confidence and self esteem..... You don't destroy a kid's self esteem, and then blast it in front of millions...

and obviously, there is much more than meets the eye in this young lady's situation.... there may have been an actual pattern of abuse...

abuse =/= punishment or instill discipline

Those lil nikkas getting the George Jeff cut is an embarrassing punishment..... no more no less...

The fact you're trying to insinuate that boys should be raised the same way as girls is telling.......

So it's ok to publically humiliate a boy with a fukked up haircut, but it's not on to do the same thing to a girl?

Why is a boys confidence and self esteem not attached to the way he looks. Your logic is flawed and completely ridiculous