Daughter kills herself after Father cuts her hair and posts online

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This girl had to be mentally unstable or extremely vain, which may be a mental disorder in and of itself. Even at 13, she should've known her hair would grow back pretty quickly. These kids nowadays are so spoiled and deficient that they can't even take some embarassment. Ol' every kid gets a trophy a## generation we live in.

The father didn't have to do all that, but until more detail is given, I don't know if dude should be in trouble for this. Especially since this seems to be some sort of trend.

Plus, if this chick hadn't have done some crazy sh#t, then people would be applauding the father for bringing her back to earth, especially if she was doing some teenage ho sh#t..

Peace

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I wonder if some you of that praise fathers for doin the same thing to their sons will keep it consistent with your opinion on this :sas1:
it depends on the child and the circumstance. ya never know.

if you got a super fragile kid. you may not need to go this far. she was a super fragile child. she jumped without hesitation. which tells me she was already ready to jump probably before the hair incident. that was the last straw for her. now was that the last straw because pops was overbearing? we will never know.

or was it her last straw because she couldnt have her way in her fathers home? again, we will never know. just because some kid kills themselves after being reprimanded for bad behavior it doesnt mean the reprimand was wrong. it doesnt mean the person doing it was wrong either. its not as cut and dry as some try to make it seem. lets find out all the facts on pops first. then we can make a valid judgement.

until then RIP to the youngin. and to any other youngin thats ready to jump because your folks public shamed you. It aint that serious. its just hair. take that L and keep it moving. you wont be a teen forever.and especially if you did something crazy enough to deserve a public shaming. you should take that L and keep it moving.

imagine all the kids who got whooped or slapped in public back in the day. imagine all of those kids running and jumping off of bridges even though they were in the wrong and deserved what they got.

example. Lets say your folks dont curse. and your parents have told you time and time again do not curse. then all of a sudden yall are out at a family outing and you curse out your sibling at the table for all to hear. and moms smacks the Ish out of you(WELL DESERVED). if said bad mouth unruly child jumps off a bridge, i aint blaming the parents for the smack. thats on him for asking for the smack more or less and not being big enough to suck up the punishment. if you cant do the time dont do the.....

but again we dont know that girls household situation.
 

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Only a matter of time before something like this happened. :rip: to the girl. I had a niece pass away at 9 years old in a car accident, this shyt pisses me off.
 

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even if it wasnt recorded
how is cutting your child's hair a good form of punishment?
if your child is super vein and everything he/she does is based on their looks. and you have tried all other punishments and they keep going against your rules. then yes you can cut that hair off. or take those jordans, or take that gear. whatever it is you know they think they have that makes them who they are when in reality it doesnt.

OR you can kick the kid out and send him/her to child services and let them put ya kid up for foster care. i mean you really dont have many choices if you actually have a kid that refuses to listen and do right. either get at them with something they value a lot. OR put em out. just know if you put them out and they end up in foster care. a little shaming aint nothing in compared to what they will face being some foster kid to most of these fake foster parents that use that title to abuse kids by using them as little worker bees or sex slaves, or just a check(half feeding/clothing them, not paying them any attention.)

There are rules in ya parents house. abide by those rules or deal with the consequences. stop expecting ZERO consequences for your actions. it dont work like that at your folks house because it wont work like that in the real world. a little hair cut is light weight. you get outside doing some ridiculous nonsense. and you may end up dead or in jail or laid out by someone. ya never know. and this isnt to say the little girl deserved it. we have no idea what transpired so let that be.
 

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Only a matter of time before something like this happened. :rip: to the girl. I had a niece pass away at 9 years old in a car accident, this shyt pisses me off.
sorry to hear about your niece. but this is not that. completely different scenario.

this should only piss you off if you know this little girls household situation. if you know the father is just way to over bearing. but we have no idea what this girl did or kept doing to drive pops to a haircut and taping episode.

she may have been caught sexting some grown a... man for the 3rd time. ya never know.

or she may have not deserved it. we DO NOT KNOW. so no reason to be mad at her or him. either way what we do know is she overreacted regardless of that situation. jumping off a bridge unless you're on fire is not the move.
 

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Na u can't do daughters the same way u do sons
It's different
what if a little haircut was the difference between your daughter becoming an instaThot or becoming a college grad with a nice family one day. would you chop that hair off or would you go soft?
 
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Statistically asain people commit suicide at a higher rate. So what that have to do with us? :yeshrug:

Stop being weak.. Stop dumbing down you're principals because of what some Asain girl did:scust:

No matter what side of the fence you are on about this haircut situation this isolated case should not change that..
 

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This girl had to be mentally unstable or extremely vain, which may be a mental disorder in and of itself. Even at 13, she should've known her hair would grow back pretty quickly. These kids nowadays are so spoiled and deficient that they can't even take some embarassment. Ol' every kid gets a trophy a## generation we live in.

The father didn't have to do all that, but until more detail is given, I don't know if dude should be in trouble for this. Especially since this seems to be some sort of trend.

Plus, if this chick hadn't have done some crazy sh#t, then people would be applauding the father for bringing her back to earth, especially if she was doing some teenage ho sh#t..

Peace

Seriously, killing yourself over something like this? Good riddance. :camby:

I really don't feel bad for her (or her dad), suicide for getting your hair cut? :camby:

I'm not with humiliating your kids online for "punishment" but what's the point of attacking the father now? he already got the worst ether he could get. There's ppl going thru a lot worse than what this girl had done to her. This shyt was very mild.

But I hope this does teach parents not to publicly shame their kids tho.

Yall are reducing this to suicide over a hair cut when it was most likely a cumulative effect. You don't just become abusive out of the blue, I doubt this type of behavior was isolated to this incident. If he did that on Instagram in front of people ain't no telling what he did or said to her in private.

And even aside from alll that, everything from the shyt they put in our food and water to the media (social or otherwise) we take in can influence our brain chemistry negatively.

All kinds of things from the shyt they put in our food and water to the media (social or otherwise) we take in influence our brain chemistry negatively. Someone doesn't have to be weak or vain to be affected by that..let alone by abusive behavior from a parent.
 

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sorry to hear about your niece. but this is not that. completely different scenario.

this should only piss you off if you know this little girls household situation. if you know the father is just way to over bearing. but we have no idea what this girl did or kept doing to drive pops to a haircut and taping episode.

she may have been caught sexting some grown a... man for the 3rd time. ya never know.

or she may have not deserved it. we DO NOT KNOW. so no reason to be mad at her or him. either way what we do know is she overreacted regardless of that situation. jumping off a bridge unless you're on fire is not the move.
It pisses me off because she had her whole life ahead of her. Why are you assuming she was sexting grown men :dahell:
 

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Need a follow-up to what happened between the vid being posted and her jumping.



She’s standing in a room looking at the phone camera. She appears to be afraid. The camera then shows the floor where there is a pile of long black hair. A taunting male voice says, ‘The consequences of getting messed up? Man, you lost all that beautiful hair. Was it worth it?’ The girl stares at her hair on the floor. She very quietly says, ‘No.’ ‘How many times did I warn you?’ She almost inaudibly says, ‘Twice.’ He then says, ‘Okay.’ as if he has proved a point.

A parent who says their child was a “close friend” of Izabel claims that she saw the horrifying video before it was taken down and that the father also “cut her undergarments” and “destroyed her clothing.”

:merchant: :wtf:
 
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