It pisses me off because she had her whole life ahead of her. Why are you assuming she was sexting grown men
i'm not assuming anything. i use that as an example of a possible reason a father would be upset enough to cut off his daughters hair. usually to be shamed like that, you have had to do something extreme to receive the extreme punishment.
Kid gets caught trying to bang in dem streets or sell drugs, pops finds out. pops puts the camera on and goes in on his kid about being a thug and trying to be hard as he challenges him to a fight. not the idea scenario. but thats an extreme situation that takes extreme measures. not saying i agree or disagree. i'm just saying extreme for extreme. in order to get your childs attention. i've told you verbally multiple times. i've begged you, pleaded with you to not do it again. and you just REFUSE to do what i have asked of you. at what point does a parent take serious action?
and what should those actions be? fine no haircuts on videos, no box outs with your son. So what do you do? you've taken the phone away(you've seen and heard about kids trying to kill/poison their parents for doing this too), take away the ipad, the laptop, the xbox/ps, etc. your kid is still wilding out.
its only two options left. do something extreme or call social services and tell them to take your kid and put him/her into foster care.
you cant assume "oh well little brian is just going thru a phase." you dont know that. you dont know if this is just a phase or the building blocks of brian the thug or lisa the THOT. and as a parent you will of course air on the side of caution.