Daughter kills herself after Father cuts her hair and posts online

Atsym Sknyfs

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I have a daughter that just recently got her period. At that moment your whole roll as a father shifts and becomes more of a protector. I understand where pops was coming from but I could never treat my little girl that's just going through a normal part of growing up like that. She basically felt she lost the two most important men in her life on top of being humiliated in front of her friends and the world... dude was just a bad Dad. The little girl was just being a normal teenager.

I feel you... I raise my kids like the cosby show... I take stuff .. we talk .. and its all good....
I would never try to publicly humiliate my children ... I mean fine.. you cut a inch or 2 off and keep it moving.. of course she gonna lie and say she trying a new look but you proved your point.... dont upload a damn video...
 

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What if he didn't film it. What would everyone say then? This was probably her driving point to committing suicide. There had to be more instances to end her life. Her hair would grow back quickly
 

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Not when its kids out getting sexual molested and get beatings so bad they have whelps on their skin and still strong minded enough to overcome that call the police on the abuser. I just think differently I have that mentality that it's always a person going thru something way worse then you in somewhere in the earth



nah you are right, this generation, like most of the previous posters, is just ass backward
 

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Enough of these attention whore parents. If you're going to discipline your child, do it in private and you don't publicly humiliate them in a fashion where all of their peers will ridicule them.

This also applies to Toya Graham as well by the way. :sas2:
 

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That's the entire point with these dumb ass girl to boy comparisons, trauma is relative in spite of gender, there are probably a few girls out there that wouldn't give a fukk at all if their dad cut their hair, but the girl who committed suicide probably wouldn't take someone else's experience as reason to modify her reaction to violence.

"yall mad about police violence against Black people in America, but in Iraq, people have to worry about suicide bombers and ISIS so yall should be grateful"

:francis:

This. This forum is notorious for acting like the impact of certain things on human beings is the same all across the board. Like all people react emotionally the same
 

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what if a little haircut was the difference between your daughter becoming an instaThot or becoming a college grad with a nice family one day. would you chop that hair off or would you go soft?
It's never that easy sir. U gotta outsmart girls.
They don't become thots overnight.
A fathers gotta be patient with daughters. Usually just taking away the phone works wonders.
 

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I feel you... I raise my kids like the cosby show... I take stuff .. we talk .. and its all good....
I would never try to publicly humiliate my children ... I mean fine.. you cut a inch or 2 off and keep it moving.. of course she gonna lie and say she trying a new look but you proved your point.... dont upload a damn video...
cutting her hair at all is wrong. It's teaching her that she aint shyt and no man would want her if she doesn't look like a pretty Barbie. Just the self-esteem hit at that age by doing something like that is huge. What's wrong with just talking and educating her. Punishing her by taking away internet tv friends. Then have the little boy of with his parents and speak to them together to let them no how serious and dangerous dating so young can be?
 
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