if you have any self respect can't shoot your shot after that comment.
Do you get chosen by Black women in a suit?
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Oh please.
You are using a false equivalence.
That you would try to use such a silly topic about a black man dressed up in a suit and compare it to something that is embedded in colorism, which is a direct extension of white supremacy, shows you don’t have a true grasp of reality.
This topic is dumb... colorism is not. Stop it.
Don’t try to justify a dumb topic by attempting to impose a serious one in order to prove your point. You just reflected badly on yourself.
I didn't make a "false equivalence." I simply provided an extreme example so that you could understand. Apparently you still don't
Anyway, I'm right and you're in your feelings and I'm not going to go back and forth with you.
I didn't make a "false equivalence." I simply provided an extreme example so that you could understand. Apparently you still don't
Anyway, I'm right and you're in your feelings and I'm not going to go back and forth with you.
No, I get what you’re trying to do but you used a bad example.
This topic is about how black men are perceived while dressed up... you tried to use a topic that is of a greater importance than how a man is looked at in business clothes.
I love how people resort to reducing someone to an emotional perspective just because the response they get is something they can’t really refute.
So I’ll say I’m in my feelings to assist you in your defense.. let’s use that mindset as my stance in my response to you. I’m in my feelings because on any given day, if you’re in the corporate world, which I’m assuming most men who wear business suits are, most women are not giving what they wear that much thought. Maybe they may have a passing thought like “are you going to an interview?” If it’s not an outfit that is typical in that work environment, or maybe they may say “you look nice” again if it’s not typical, but unless you can provide sufficient examples, I will continue to assume that you are just looking and attempting to make a generalization without a sufficient amount of evidence.
I've heard "you prolly only like light skinned girls", never heard white girls 
if you have any self respect can't shoot your shot after that comment.
I'm talking about before the comment was made. Get it together
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What a weird comment, to the point I almost think it's fake. If a black woman said that to you at McDonalds I could somewhat buy it, but an an industry event? Where there are presumably multiple black men in suits? I work in business, there are black dudes here...and some of them date black chicks. All that I know have dated a black chick before.
This whole "successful black men only date white women" thing is bullshyt. Especially in an era where there are more successful black women in multiple industries.
I've been told before by black AND white women that they assumed I only dated white chicks, but in each case it was a pretty low class chick.
This whole "successful black men only date white women" thing is bullshyt. Especially in an era where there are more successful black women in multiple industries.
I've been told before by black AND white women that they assumed I only dated white chicks, but in each case it was a pretty low class chick.
Wait she said that most bw think
that bm that wear suits date ww?
that bm that wear suits date ww?
Job doesn't dictate level of class or self-esteem breh.
Not just suits though..you can just have a certain swag and carry yourself a certain way and women will hit you with that
"You date beckies
"Nonsense.
Not just suits though..you can just have a certain swag and carry yourself a certain way and women will hit you with that
"You date beckies
Nonsense.
Can you give an example?
Yes I can which is why I said it.
Ummmm I kind of want more than just a comment on a forum.... especially if someone is trying to prove that their opinion is a synopsis of the population they are referring to.