Gentlemen: Do you lose interest once she gets interested?

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Ladies do you find that a guy is chasing you around but once you cave and go okay then what's the deal, he gets all defensive or backs off?


Guys do you like...I was going to ask if you like a girl to play hard to get then I realised you all just want to get laid


But seriously, what's the deal? Am I a taker of control in the scenario? How do you let the guy lead

 

[Remote]

"How do you let the guy lead?"

The easy answer is you don't. Most men and women still hold traditional views on courting...which is to say...the man needs to take charge. So if he doesn't, it might be best to move on.
That said, I suppose some women overrate their signals. Maybe what you think are obvious signals to him, might not be so obvious. So in that case, try being a bit more direct and to the point.

Women are fond of saying they hate playing games, yet in courting/dating/relationships, a lot of the confusions and misunderstandings come from playing games and not being direct.

To answer the thread title, no. I don't lose interest once a woman shows interest. I mean that's the point: To show interest in a person and hopefully see that interest reciprocated.

Losing interest in a woman after you've shown interest in her is like....it's like ordering a meal at a restaurant and walking out as soon as it's delivered to the table.
Makes no sense.

Not to me, anyway.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Ladies do you find that a guy is chasing you around but once you cave and go okay then what's the deal, he gets all defensive or backs off?


Guys do you like...I was going to ask if you like a girl to play hard to get then I realised you all just want to get laid


But seriously, what's the deal? Am I a taker of control in the scenario? How do you let the guy lead

I lose interest after you let me smash and get mad for all that Shyt you put me through just to fukk

 

[Willie]

I lose interest after you let me smash and get mad for all that Shyt you put me through just to fukk

Especially if its trash

 

[atlbound]

I lose interest after you let me smash and get mad for all that Shyt you put me through just to fukk

:mjlol4: ...lightweight on point tho.

 

[Danny Up]

Yeah. But sometimes it's the girls fault. she just ain't who you imagined she was. You think she a nice chick, but she a bird just in a different package. You think she's fun, she corny and extra childish. Sometimes it just be like that. You want a cheesesteak, you get it and you like i don't want this shyt.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

:mjlol4: ...lightweight on point tho.

Lightweight? That's pretty much status quo for most guys. Especially if a chick made you work (UNNECESSARILY) for it, funny how they think that'll keep you coming back when it does the opposite

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

No one takes a thirsty girl/person seriously. You have to know when to lean in and when to pull away

 

[MikelArteta]

Ladies do you find that a guy is chasing you around but once you cave and go okay then what's the deal, he gets all defensive or backs off?


Guys do you like...I was going to ask if you like a girl to play hard to get then I realised you all just want to get laid


But seriously, what's the deal? Am I a taker of control in the scenario? How do you let the guy lead

 

[Milk N Cookies]

Especially if its trash

Trashy ass? What's that like? fukkin a loose booty or something?

 

[atlbound]

Lightweight? That's pretty much status quo for most guys. Especially if a chick made you work (UNNECESSARILY) for it, funny how they think that'll keep you coming back when it does the opposite

shiit make a nicca bitter, couldve used all that wasted time to make money instead

 

[Nino Brown]

To a degree yes, but it mostly depends on how bad she is.

It's more likely to change after you hit though. Nothing highlights a woman's flaws more than that post nut clarity.

"Damn... why her hands look so old and veiny.. I never noticed that shyt before"

So you must use sex as much as you can to identify true compatibility

 

[Willie]

Trashy ass? What's that like? fukkin a loose booty or something?

She might look better with clothes on than she does naked
Head might be instead of

Can't ride dikk. Its a lot of ways some p*ssy could be bad.

The way she moan might be a turn off.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Eff you emotional black holes

 

[WaveGang]

dude is a mouse, get a real man