It stems from a mindset, not control of the system.
What I'm saying is if you are looking at the political system to initiate change you are barking up the wrong tree, because it will never work.
I'm not advocating violent overthrow because its the same problem, you throw one group out of power, you will be hard pressed to ever see the group that mounted up the force to do so, simply relinquish that power. History has shown us with Mao, Red Army, and Taliban that when people take power after a long struggle they are usually consumed with hate and looking for revenge for the ones they lost and in turn you have a repeat of the same cycle starting to take place.
What I"m advocating is people have a change of mind, realize what we have now, the state, is the origins of a majority of the problems we have in simply living and abandon it. Its a system that thrives off legitimacy, not outright violence. So when you attack its true source, the public legitimacy bestowed upon it, you can cripple it.
I would hope a more anarchic solution would arise but I doubt it since most people are anarchist and buy into the concept of needing a leader or needing a king and other non-sense, instead treating others with respect and voluntarily associating and disassociating with those you want/ dont want to be around.