I wish sex was in the food group, I could use 5 servings today

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I know, strange (and presumably silly question) but how do I get a "friend" with benefits?

I haven't dated in a while (personal reasons), the closest thing to me even connecting with a guy was having back and forth conversation with a guy I met online, who is great and all but living countries apart it doesn't seem realistic, and well; a woman has her needs.

Honestly, I don't want a relationship, I don't want to deal with his emotions or sharing mine. I bought toys etc but sometimes you just need some D (sorry to be uncouth!)

I've had friends hit on me all the time, and I worry about sex making the friendship uncomfortable, and I'm not interested in dating on a romantic level, and toys are boring. Have any of you ever been in this predicament? If so, what did you do? I'm getting fed up here, have me thinking about great past sex with people I do not need to be thinking about! Help me out ladies.
 
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You will get attached... Especially if you go back for seconds....

But fwb should not be in your social circle
He should be someone you really don't like, personality wise...

And you should be prepared for the disgust you will feel when:
a) you don't command his attention after he cums
b) He calls you in the middle of the night... Just to come through
c) he leaves right after
d) You are option c
e) you flake on him, he doesn't care because he will call option d

Good vs. bad... Choose wisely friend
 
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Panthera said:
You will get attached... Especially if you go back for seconds....

But fwb should not be in your social circle
He should be someone you really don't like, personality wise...

And you should be prepared for the disgust you will feel when:
a) you don't command his attention after he cums
b) He calls you in the middle of the night... Just to come through
c) he leaves right after
d) You are option c
e) you flake on him, he doesn't care because he will call option d

Good vs. bad... Choose wisely friend
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Sounds awful. :mjcry:
 
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Panthera said:
You will get attached... Especially if you go back for seconds....

But fwb should not be in your social circle
He should be someone you really don't like, personality wise...

And you should be prepared for the disgust you will feel when:
a) you don't command his attention after he cums
b) He calls you in the middle of the night... Just to come through
c) he leaves right after
d) You are option c
e) you flake on him, he doesn't care because he will call option d

Good vs. bad... Choose wisely friend
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Don't listen to this go get your rocks off girl.
 
agnosticlady

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I personally couldn't do it, because I would have to have some type of attraction to the man to even sleep with him. That attraction will eventually develop into feelings that will probably not be reciprocated since it started off as a FWB. I'd have to be in a relationship first, but it's your call.
 
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Panthera said:
You will get attached... Especially if you go back for seconds....

But fwb should not be in your social circle
He should be someone you really don't like, personality wise...

And you should be prepared for the disgust you will feel when:
a) you don't command his attention after he cums
b) He calls you in the middle of the night... Just to come through
c) he leaves right after
d) You are option c
e) you flake on him, he doesn't care because he will call option d

Good vs. bad... Choose wisely friend
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Pls don't listen to coli cat

@jissell live that yolo life
 
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