In love with a friend? Help me brehs, please..

[Another Man]

Haha faq

 

[O.T.I.S.]

i'd falll back til the shyt with her current dude ends

that friendship shyt is lame though, make yourself less available to her ass until she becomes single cause friendship with hoes we secretly love? we off that

This too

Plus I would've been sending hints that she could get the dikk from the jump... Thats where I fukked up last time I was in a situation like this

Or I completely ignored them to the point where if we got drunk together, usually they would bust a move then blame it on alcohol.

It's how I got my exes. I was cool with them but I let them know immediately that I'm not your gay friend and we can fukk or not fukk BUT don't expect to be coming over my house all day or calling all night if we not together

 

[earthwalka]

Don't... just don't

 

[BlackDynamite310]

fukk the friendship. Let it be know to the woman. You posed to whip ya meat out and put it on the table. she either gonna be down or not but dammit it won't be some fukking wishing and wondering going on. Y'all nikkas ain't bold man.

 

[Mr. Negative]

You friend zone'd yourself

sat in that cage for 2 years

now you for somebody to come and let you out. Help you escape.

Guess what. You never even locked the cell door.

 

[Leviathan]

i'd falll back til the shyt with her current dude ends

that friendship shyt is lame though, make yourself less available to her ass until she becomes single cause friendship with hoes we secretly love? we off that

Yeah, i'm leaning towards falling back and getting everything at school together first.

 

[Leviathan]

You friend zone'd yourself

You never even locked the cell door.

Elaborate

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

Elaborate

You only believe you're in the Friend Zone...

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I knoooow breh, but I really don't want to lose her.

You about to get ya feelings hurt.


You waited all this time and never told her anything. Soon as you try to get with her she'll remind you of how much of a sucker...i mean brother you are.

 

[Sterling Archer]

I knoooow breh, but I really don't want to lose her.

You dont have her.

If she wanted to fukk with you she would have already. Yall both were single during all this but she choosing to fukk dudes other than you. Even if you tell her and yall hookup its not gonna workout. She can be your friend but she only gonna be worth worth cumming on in that regard. Get you a woman that cares about you cause she'll have you thinking why tf you wasted time on ole girl. Stop giving af about someone who doesnt deserve that adoration.

 

[1thouwow]

U waited too long. But still u might as well tell her. The peak of y'all friendship has already passed

 

[CinnaSlim]

Tell her what you told us in OP

 

[Turbulent]

Who gives a fukk about the "friendship". You guys are probably real cool, good chemistry, probably bought eachother lunch once or twice and share a few inside jokes but keep it real, she's probably nothing more than a glorified schoolmate

But you did fukk up by not letting her know from the beginning. She probably thinks you're a lame for feeling her and not making a move.

 

[Freedman]

Sounds like the friend zone to me poppa. Your # probably saved as free food and she gonna hit you with the your the perfect guy but I love you like a brother

 

[Ghost Utmost]

I am kinda going through this.

A cute ass chick I work with has befriended me for some reason and we have a small clique that includes another - fatter - chick.

So it's like this three amigos thing now.

I have hesitated for my own purposes ( I am old enough to have a kid her age, she has a kid already, don't shyt where you eat, she's kinda ratchet) but her looks are overwhelming my common sense bit by bit.

I don't know if I'm gonna shoot my shot yet, but if I do here's what I'll do.

This is text book so these are the steps to follow even with a girl you meet at the mall.

**if you have a bish that will fukc just cause you say "let's fukc" then she's a ho and you should really think hard about touching her. The following is for women with some sense of self worth**

Say hi. (She seems pleased)

Small talk. (She seems pleased)

Ask if you can stay in touch.

Converse a couple of good times remotely. I would suggest a live phone convo over text, but w/e.

Ask her out. <<<<you're right here in the process <<<<<<<<

(You DO NOT have to make any speeches about your intentions or anything. Keep it super simple. "Hey that new X Men movie looks pretty good. We should see it." or "such and such has the best sushi. What? You never been? We should go.")

If she's interested she'll just simply agree to go on a date. If she starts resisting the idea of the date then you should prolly take the hint.

So she goes out with you. If it was someone you just met I would say leave the first date or two at that. Maybe try for the kiss on the third.

Since y'all know each other so well, you're past that ice breaking phase so I'd say try for the kiss.

"I had a great time tonight"

Get the hug. Linger before letting go. Look her in the eyes, go in slow for the kiss. Don't like ambush kiss her, silently 'ask' with your eyes and by going slow enough for her to have to meet you - or give her a chance to escape.

And you'll know just like that.

Something about - decent - women that wants to flee if you make them say out loud "hey let's go in my bedroom and make out cause I like you" Makes them feel dirty to talk about it or something.

Same chick that would never respond to a straight up request like that could easily end up in your bedroom to help you put together an outfit. Then you get to joking around, then you're sitting on the bed laughing, then you're horsing around...

Next thing you know she slips and falls on your dikc. She'll be like "oops" and roll with it.