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Not directing at you, just the person who said it and anyone who cosigns the mentality. This is the genesis for dudes hating on the women in their communities. "Most black women are aggressive/angry/ghetto" stereotypes based on the group ppl see in their projects or on their block.
1) A woman wrote the orginal comment.

2) I would trust her judgement about female behaviors because she exhibits them.

3) I'm not basing this off of anything but her experiences as a woman and nothing going else. What are you basing comment on? :francis:
 

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Nothing wrong with having standards but when you put sky high standards and you don't bring much to the table on either end, then got the nerves to complain, that is of a toxic mindset.

Sorry but if ladies think their sexual options equal there long term options, they are of a toxic mindset.

Fellas, if you think you are owed sex or a woman of your liking, you are of a toxic mindset.

This has to end. This is what is killing the dating scene. Women overvaluing their p*ssy, men demanding for shyt they don't deserve. Go to the bank and ask for more a million dollars and see what they say? But women owe you p*ssy right?
 

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Please, these same nikkas who will come in here cosigning are the ones who talking about how these instagram thots are wife material. The same ones voting any light skin broad with long fake weave a 10. Modern men are primarily responsible for these inflated egos of these women.
 

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Please, these same nikkas who will come in here cosigning are the ones who talking about how these instagram thots are wife material. The same ones voting any light skin broad with long fake weave a 10. Modern men are primarily responsible for these inflated egos of these women.
This is something that little girls are taught. I don't think you can blame modern men. They inherited this,to say they created this climate is just not true. They may have helped Foster this. But boys aren't made of sugar and spice...a rhyme that his been around before instagram.:usure:
 

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Toxic Femininity is regular femininity.

Gynocracy and gynocentricism is the norm of the human species.

A woman has to value her womb because of the energy and the time spent to develop a child.

The from the day a male child is born he is being taught to submit to female power and whims.

"Never hit a woman."
"Protect your sister."
"Protect your mother."
"You are my little man."
"Make sure you pay on the first date."

A male child is distracted with sports and games...avoiding the real life competition of sex and mating. He is shut off in a fantasy world and stays in the that world.

While a female child is playing with dolls, creating doll families, decorating doll houses. She is called a princess or little momma. She is being taught how to cook in order to get a man. She is taught how to rear children. She is taught how to run a household. She is taught how to put on make-up. She is taught how to get a man to do what.

A female child is developed into being to be served. She is taught to value her sexuality at all costs. A male child is taught to give it away for absolutely nothing.

So when a female child becomes a woman, she is equipped to manipulate and control men.

Since male children are shut off into a fantasy, a young man is confronted with a master manipulator of the highest order and fukking loss.

So we try to cram in two decades worth of experience into our minds by the seat of our pants and when women come across male manipulation tactics, it is perceived as "toxic".

Female manipulation tactics is seen as quite normal. Make up, voice manipulation, controlling the kitchen, feign submissiveness, sex denial, seduction, financial exploitation...perfectly normal and non-toxic.
 

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This is something that little girls are taught. I don't think you can blame modern men. They inherited this,to say they created this climate is just not true. They may have helped Foster this. But boys aren't made of sugar and spice...a rhyme that his been around before instagram.:usure:
It's considerably more wide spread now than it was. Bake then you had to be amazing in order to hold those standards, but now you have fat women with waist shapers having hundreds of men thirsting after her. Did u have fat women being worshipped in 1970. Absolutely not
 

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It's considerably more wide spread now than it was. Bake then you had to be amazing in order to hold those standards, but now you have fat women with waist shapers having hundreds of men thirsting after her. Did u have fat women being worshipped in 1970. Absolutely not
I agree it is more wide spread. But to quote pac." We were given this world we didn't make it."
 

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Toxic Femininity is regular femininity.

Gynocracy and gynocentricism is the norm of the human species.

A woman has to value her womb because of the energy and the time spent to develop a child.

The from the day a male child is born he is being taught to submit to female power and whims.

"Never hit a woman."
"Protect your sister."
"Protect your mother."
"You are my little man."
"Make sure you pay on the first date."

A male child is distracted with sports and games...avoiding the real life competition of sex and mating. He is shut off in a fantasy world and stays in the that world.

While a female child is playing with dolls, creating doll families, decorating doll houses. She is called a princess or little momma. She is being taught how to cook in order to get a man. She is taught how to rear children. She is taught how to run a household. She is taught how to put on make-up. She is taught how to get a man to do what.

A female child is developed into being to be served. She is taught to value her sexuality at all costs. A male child is taught to give it away for absolutely nothing.

So when a female child becomes a woman, she is equipped to manipulate and control men.

Since male children are shut off into a fantasy, a young man is confronted with a master manipulator of the highest order and fukking loss.

So we try to cram in two decades worth of experience into our minds by the seat of our pants and when women come across male manipulation tactics, it is perceived as "toxic".

Female manipulation tactics is seen as quite normal. Make up, voice manipulation, controlling the kitchen, feign submissiveness, sex denial, seduction, financial exploitation...perfectly normal and non-toxic.
Naw, that shyt is toxic and western world as fukk. We don't need them to be objects but we don't need them to be princesses either. We need them to be quality human beings which the same we need from men.
 

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Its an extension of our society. Essentially Americans want to be able to do whatever they want and have it have no effect on getting the things they want. Both men and women want to be able to live life however they feel sexually or relationally and simply hit the reset button the day they meet someone they want to settle down with. Men want to do whatever in their 20's but still get their ideal queen in their 30's. Women want to bring nothing to the table while getting the man of their dreams OR want to demand the moon and the stars in their man because they even place too much stock in what they're bringing materialistically. Nobody wants to accept that every action has a reaction. If a woman's opinion of herself is too high and so her standards are too high, she'll miss guys that are on her level. If a man's too caught up in doing him, by the time he wants a woman most up to his 'standards' will be gone. That said nikkas have been that way forever. The change is that the women are acting similarly too so instead of half the pop waiting for a ring and wanting to get wifed, most of them are playing the game too so you got a whole bunch of don't wanna be single single people with too much freedom
 
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