"Men get curved and shoot people". 72 thousand likes.

[At30wecashout]

see how easy that was.

Thing is, you accepted it without argument. The very same statement he said would piss other women off because it appears to minimize their concerns.

We know that in other circles, women would be heated if a man came in there trying to dial back the severity of the claims women are making.

 

[Larry Lambo]

I don't see anything wrong with that statement. I've had a guy yell at me years ago with my mother walking beside me to the grocery store, "guh hey you bytch gimmie yo p*ssy!" We both power walked quicker only to have him drive up on the curb of Kroger and we dodged him in time. Good thing security were there and got him out the way. I complain about not being approached but women don't want to be hurt, ran over or killed by a man because we show no interest. It can be very scary.

I respect your honesty and I'm sorry you had to go through that frightening experience. But it seems that if women continually highlight the times when men go ape sh*t over being rejected, that it is in turn interpreted as being "anti-approach". It feels like women are being portrayed as perpetual victims to the evil male species, and that it's best that we leave them alone.

Men are responding to that and saying that we shouldn't let that sentiment discourage us from going out and finding a mate. There are far more women looking for men and wanting us to take charge, than there are women afraid of us. The ones that are afraid will just have to deal. Sorry not sorry.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

What does this have to do with men killing women after rejection?

Everything

 

[wickedsm]

Thing is, you accepted it without argument. The very same statement he said would piss other women off because it appears to minimize their concerns.

We know that in other circles, women would be heated if a man came in there trying to dial back the severity of the claims women are making.

if somebody is dead set on pushing out extreme/ false statements they are most likely going to continue to do so.
all you can do is not give in to the impulse to be insane and hateful right along with them.
acknowledge the truth and refute the lie.

those of us who arent the crazy very loud minority will appreciate you for it.

 

[Fandroid]

Hell, even if she did, considering the billions of humans who walk around

Exactly, it can't even be documented.

And if it could documented, it still wouldn't be documented because it just doesn't happen enough for there to be a database for iy as if it were a gender-specific male phenemenon.

female violence after romantic objection is rare and you know this.

receipts.

So its like if her position is that men have fragile egos and can be dangerous, how do I simultaneously support the idea behind her message (that men out here got issues) without supporting it literally (That men in general do the shyt.) Someone makes it a point to minimize it from men to something more specific, and she didn't wanna hear that shyt. This is why I stay silent on a lot of these subjects because victims of fukkshyt, women, don't wanna hear
how you aren't the one committing that shyt.

Yup, she just wants all men responsible for it, point blank. Like in it's our DNA and it's pathological.

 

[Fandroid]

I respect your honesty and I'm sorry you had to go through that frightening experience. But it seems that if women continually highlight the times when men go ape sh*t over being rejected, that it is in turn interpreted as being "anti-approach". It feels like women are being portrayed as perpetual victims to the evil male species, and that it's best that we leave them alone.

Men are responding to that and saying that we shouldn't let that sentiment discourage us from going out and finding a mate. There are far more women looking for men and wanting us to take charge, than there are women afraid of us. The ones that are afraid will just have to deal. Sorry not sorry.

Black men and black women shouldn't be in the same room unless they're trying to build.

shout outs to @Matt504

 

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And his tweet too was dumb and classic twitter bait.

U know how it goes. Anything to get attention these days. I just hate it b/c it kinda trivializes which is actually a pretty scary issue if u have ever been faced with it.
I just wish people would grow up sometimes. This extension of kindergarten "ewwww I hate boys" and "girls suck" gotta end somewhere.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Dance puppets.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

We're not talking about men catcalling or getting into arguments over being rejected. We're talking about murder

So everyone who murders is mentally unstable then? Other than your child(or a child period) being raped/molested/murdered, I dont see anything worth murdering someone for. Yet people get killed for less everyday. A shytty person is just a shytty person. And a shytty person =/= mentally unstable.

 

[At30wecashout]

@Booksnrain damn, I was trying to address the first point before you edited, but yes, this is an issue that can be talked about, but not one that has a solution.

Many of lifes ills have no solution because we can only control ourselves. Men can complain about women curving then or bullshytting them to get out of a situation, but
the very reason she will do it is due to the minority men who made her tactics very necessary in order to see herself out safely. How does one solve that outside of having
men and women not interact with each other? There is no solution, and social engineering doesn't necessarily fix it cause someone always bucks the trend.

Its an argument that hurts feelings and solves nothing because one side wants to feel they are being taken seriously, while the other side can't honestly propose a solution,
and can only offer empty words of support.

 

[Fandroid]

So everyone who murders is mentally unstable then?

So you're insinuating a person killing someone after getting curved is mentally sound?

 

[iBrowse]

Or just flat out disrespectful

If i got a penny for every time i was called a fat ugly bytch when i turned a guy down, id be a millionare

Women become fat ugly bytch thots when they reject a man didn't you know?

 

[Fandroid]

How does one solve that outside of having
men and women not interact with each other?

I agree with this resolution. @Matt504

 

[Still Benefited]

Seems like theres a pretty easy solution to this "problem".....give nikkas a fake number and get home safely

Cuz lets be honest,this is not really a "problem" at all....im all for if we wanna talk about violence against women when they leave relationships....but lets not muddy them waters talking about the rare occurance of violence against women by men who approach and get rejected

And its safe to say violence against men,at the hands of simps is just about evenly distributed....ive seen enough real life occurences,and forensic files,first 48,that one BET crime show....to see its like how Pac said "when bytches get horny,nikkas die"....females start new relationships and the ex boyfriend/simp, come and kill the new nikka....husbands catching the wife cheating and killing the guy she cheating with....females getting involved with two friends,and then the friends become enemies.

This is real life common scenarios,that are a major cause of violence in our communities...not women dying because they didnt give nikkas they number

We should all be denouncing simps together,because we all taking risk...and all in danger at the hands of these sensitive,bitter men.

 

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And also, yeah this is a scary situation. I don't think acknowledging that some males resort to violence towards women out of feeling entitled means that all men are foaming at the mouth to fukk a chick up if she doesn't return a text. If that was the case, women would have been extinguished a while ago.

What does however need to be addressed is the sickness or mentality that you can physically act on somebody not wanting u. And in my experiences, I don't see this happening to men in the same way it happens to women.

For the life of me, I've never seen a chick approach a guy and then say "Fukk yo dumb ass" if he doesn't want her. Women don't approach as much as men anyway. Acknowledging this doesn't mean all men are at fault.

So the specific mental illness that makes anybody think it's okay to become violent or disrespectful is leading to women being assaulted and disrespected simply for not wanting dudes and that's not okay. I don't know how to change this culture but discourse is always a first step.

And if people are committing similar violent acts against blk dudes then I'm not competitive about victimization, so discuss that too.
But I just always hope we can have a discussion about gender issues w/o getting silly.