"Men get curved and shoot people". 72 thousand likes.

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Seems like theres a pretty easy solution to this "problem".....give nikkas a fake number and get home safely

Cuz lets be honest,this is not really a "problem" at all....im all for if we wanna talk about violence against women when they leave relationships....but lets not muddy them waters talking about the rare occurance of violence against women by men who approach and get rejected

And its safe to say violence against men,at the hands of simps is just about evenly distributed....ive seen enough real life occurences,and forensic files,first 48,that one BET crime show....to see its like how Pac said "when bytches get horny,nikkas die"....females start new relationships and the ex boyfriend/simp, come and kill the new nikka....husbands catching the wife cheating and killing the guy she cheating with....females getting involved with two friends,and then the friends become enemies.

This is real life common scenarios,that are a major cause of violence in our communities...not women dying because they didnt give nikkas they number

We should all be denouncing simps together,because we all taking risk...and all in danger at the hands of these sensitive,bitter men.

I think chicks being perpetrators of violence against men does need to be addressed to. My only question is why don't these issues ever come up outside of discussions like these? Just kinda feels like people are trivializing stuff that is a legitimate scary part of women's lives.
If men are getting stalked or abused, assaulted at similar rates in the same fashion then speak about that too.

 

[Canon]

I cant imagine how ya'll talk to women in real life

im really awesome at pretending i give a fukk about there problems

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

All my nikkas hitting the streets tonight don't forget to tool up.

 

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So is it okay to speak on it. Once u acknowledge that it isn't all men doing it...
I think this behavior stems from these dudes feeling entitled to female attention. I also think women have just as much capacity for this type of shyt but it plays out differently b/c women aren't socialized to be aggressive in the same ways as men are.

Chicks like @StillNotSoft demonstrated are more likely to fukk up a dude's life over not being chose (hello trap babies I mean u might as well kill him if ur trying to ruin ole boy's life) than to directly kill somebody for not wanting her. Edit: Although it's some crazy bytches out there too. Stay safe gentlemen.

In any case, this culture of "I deserve" is the foundation for this type of ignorance.

 

[DjBhaled]

Sorry don't give a fukk about this shyt trying to normalize some shyt that doesn't even happen often, and to be real it's all how you handle the curve if you curve a nikka disrespectfully then you going get a disrespectful response

 

[AAKing23]

And also, yeah this is a scary situation. I don't think acknowledging that some males resort to violence towards women out of feeling entitled means that all men are foaming at the mouth to fukk a chick up if she doesn't return a text. If that was the case, women would have been extinguished a while ago.

What does however need to be addressed is the sickness or mentality that you can physically act on somebody not wanting u. And in my experiences, I don't see this happening to men in the same way it happens to women.

For the life of me, I've never seen a chick approach a guy and then say "Fukk yo dumb ass" if he doesn't want her. Women don't approach as much as men anyway. Acknowledging this doesn't mean all men are at fault.

So the specific mental illness that makes anybody think it's okay to become violent or disrespectful is leading to women being assaulted and disrespected simply for not wanting dudes and that's not okay. I don't know how to change this culture but discourse is always a first step.

And if people are committing similar violent acts against blk dudes then I'm not competitive about victimization, so discuss that too.
But I just always hope we can have a discussion about gender issues w/o getting silly.

I don't know know if ya'll ladies realize this but men have fragile egos. 9 time out of 10 when a dude says "Fukk yo dumb ass" after being rejected his feelings are just hurt and in some desperate way to regain his pride he'll resort to saying this. These men also weren't raised right and suffer from a lack of controlling their emotions.


And if women were relegated to approaching men more often, I'd think you'd see similar reactions from them as well. I've personally had women launch full out smear campaigns against me for not wanting them.

 

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@Booksnrain damn, I was trying to address the first point before you edited, but yes, this is an issue that can be talked about, but not one that has a solution.

Many of lifes ills have no solution because we can only control ourselves. Men can complain about women curving then or bullshytting them to get out of a situation, but
the very reason she will do it is due to the minority men who made her tactics very necessary in order to see herself out safely. How does one solve that outside of having
men and women not interact with each other? There is no solution, and social engineering doesn't necessarily fix it cause someone always bucks the trend.

Its an argument that hurts feelings and solves nothing because one side wants to feel they are being taken seriously, while the other side can't honestly propose a solution,
and can only offer empty words of support.

yeah I think frustration and blame fukks up these conversations too.
The blk dudes in here are reacting the same way people have a conversation with blk women about single motherhood. Lmao!
Bear with me b/c my mind draws threads between big ideas.

They react this way b/c large groups are tired of being held accountable for the actions of a minority within a minority.
So I get it b/c that shyt is wack and another reason why I don't like gender discussions. They dilute reality and devolve into blame politics.
Sure men do this shyt to women more often...but it's not b/c men are inherently more entitled to women. That's half the story. I think u don't see as much of it b/c women don't give themselves the opportunity to even get rejected. To be honest I think if women were faced with rejection as much as men were they would handle it in similar ways at similar rates.
But that's just me.

 

[Still Benefited]

You dudes hang around psychos?


That says way more abut yourself if you hang around these dudes.

I never seen nikkas get violent with a chick ever in life because she didnt give them a phone number...ive seen nikkas try to clown a chick,or cuss her ass out after she rejects em though

But thats apples and oranges,i guess it might be scary for a woman to have that energy directed at her by a man,but thats not violence.

Men get rudely rejected,and mocked,clowned by women alot worst when we get rejected....but hurt feelings dont equal violence.

The chick who once told me "boy if you dont get ya skinny ass on"...did not commit an act of violence,just a symbolic body blow

Just as usual men have to be more responsible and smarter than women though....you talking shyt to a women as the rejectee,even if she just played the shyt out of you,guess what?if you really go in on her,you still gon end up looking like the bully

Or worst,u cause her to react ad get physicaly violent with you,and you do nothing and nobody cares she windmillig the shyt out of you....or you decide to physically stop her,and its "you dont ever put your hands on a woman".

Men gotta stop acting jealous of bytches,we can point out hypocrisy all day,or we can be smart and live in reality....women got they burdens in other areas,and hyoocrisys they need to put up with,or we can be stupid and spite ourselves to challenge hypocrisies.

 

[Fandroid]

For the life of me, I've never seen a chick approach a guy and then say "Fukk yo dumb ass" if he doesn't want her. Women don't approach as much as men anyway.

I'd say 99% women don't approach at all. So of course you've never seen a chick spazz out. Females don't approach.



The gender roles that forces men to be the aggressor (no pun intended) is the same reasoning your pathology of men being more violent to rejection even exists in the first place.

If 99% percent of men are approaching, then statistically there is going to be a violent outlier. That's just basic math.

So essentially this rolls back to gender roles, not innate genetic tendencies that resides in men.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

It does happen.

Rip my SJU sister Tiarah Poyau .

 

[Columbo]

You're a shyt poster, you're not of the liberty to bark orders here son, fall the fukk back

Who the fukk are you?

 

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I don't know know if ya'll ladies realize this but men have fragile egos. 9 time out of 10 when a dude says "Fukk yo dumb ass" after being rejected his feelings are just hurt and in some desperate way to regain his pride he'll resort to saying this. These men also weren't raised right and suffer from a lack of controlling their emotions.


And if women were relegated to approaching men more often, I'd think you'd see similar reactions from them as well. I've personally had women launch full out smear campaigns against me for not wanting them.

Wizard I JUST wrote something like that. Women bypass this issue b/c they don't put themselves in a position to get rejected.
But at the same time women still want men to approach as @Larry Lambo conveyed earlier.

Just seems like a catch-22 for both men AND women.
Women don't want to cultivate resting bytch mode to discourage idiots b/c it might discourage others too.
Males don't want to approach b/c dummies have made the endeavor stupid hard.

Meanwhile chicks overhyping the phenomenon or dudes pretending like it's non-existent just compound the issue.

 

[Matt504]

It does happen.

Rip my SJU sister Tiarah Poyau .

it's terrible what happened to her and the other brother who was killed during that event.

 

[Larry Lambo]

For the life of me, I've never seen a chick approach a guy and then say "Fukk yo dumb ass" if he doesn't want her. Women don't approach as much as men anyway. Acknowledging this doesn't mean all men are at fault.

Women usually have slick sh*t to say about dudes that turn them down. Men don't turn down women in public like that so the whole "f**k you dumb ass" scenario doesn't occur. But when a man passes on her throwing the panties at him, he's called all type of names.

Most PEOPLE don't handle rejection well. That's a fact of life.

You take something that men and women want equally (jobs, money, material items), and they pretty much react the same way when they can't have it. Supply/Demand for sex favors the women, so they are not going be as "angry", but there still an element of frustration and acting out.

 

[Lweezy]

The strong independent fish on a bicycle sect of women are belly aching per usual. Act like you were born in Mogadishu or DRC brehettes.

And at the shameless white knighting in this thread.. not to mention projection. Yall dont love yourselves.