One of my friends got a girl from Backpage pregnant

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I'm 36 with 2 kids. Had my first at 28.

Was nervous at first but wouldn't trade away my babies for anything in the world.

Let's stop promoting the concept that having kids means your life is over. Most people with that mentality aren't shyt to begin with
Tell.em breh. I had my kid at 24 and i wouldnt chsnge that shyt. Made me mature faster and get money faster. Now if they if they cant afford it and have like 3 or 4 then thats another story. But 27 with one kid isnt shyt. These dudes gonna be 40 having kids then dying before they can do activities with them. I dont plan on having more though, one is enough for me.
 

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It is bad. It sounds like neither guy is convinced that they're gonna be with these chicks until they die...yet they decided on having a kid with someone that they may not like by next year.



You have many other options before it gets that far, but I appreciate you being proactive about what you want out of life. Sounds responsible :ld:

Are they serious with their "Girlfrends" in a relatioship? like do they like to get married or what?

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@LovelyOne83 's post is 100% right

Neither guy is that convinced that they are going to be with that women, and it scares me as a best friend

Didn't even wanna say this but...

One of the best friends basically found his girl on Backpage... yeah you heard me Backpage. He was fukking around with her for months, then all of a sudden she calls him that she's pregnant with his kid. She barely has a job, and isn't in school. I basically told him what the fukk man, but it's his life. My breh knocked up a backpage girl :mjcry:
 

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@LovelyOne83 's post is 100% right

Neither guy is that convinced that they are going to be with that women, and it scares me as a best friend

Didn't even wanna say this but...

One of the best friends basically found his girl on Backpage... yeah you heard me Backpage. He was fukking around with her for months, then all of a sudden she calls him that she's pregnant with his kid. She barely has a job, and isn't in school. I basically told him what the fukk man, but it's his life. My breh knocked up a backpage girl :mjcry:

Oh okay, you should have done explained in your first post.
 

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Tell.em breh. I had my kid at 24 and i wouldnt chsnge that shyt. Made me mature faster and get money faster. Now if they if they cant afford it and have like 3 or 4 then thats another story. But 27 with one kid isnt shyt. These dudes gonna be 40 having kids then dying before they can do activities with them. I dont plan on having more though, one is enough for me.
Its hard having kids young if the women aint picking you :yeshrug:
 
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