One of my friends got a girl from Backpage pregnant

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1 of them told me a couple months ago. The other one just told me today when I wished him happy thanksgiving. Both of them are my age


Part of me is saying congrats, the other part of me is saying... what the fukk man :francis:

Life comes at you fast :mjcry:

Is that what they want?
 

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Oh okay, you should have done explained in your first post.

Well it's complicated though. Cause the 1st one who knocked up a Backpage girl is in "you done fukked up" territory.

The 2nd one is in a little better situation. That was his girl for like a year or two. And we both work the same profession, so I know he making good money. But at the same time, it looked like it sprung up on him. Imma chill with him in about a week, so I'll see where his head is at :snoop:
 

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Yes it is :damn:. They were doing pretty good careerwise, not sure if they shoulda had them at this time. I went in (respectfully) one of my best friends basically saying Wtf bro. The other one, I didn't do that cause I didn't know how he was gonna respond. So imma keep it to myself :mjcry:
Went in? For what? Are these hoodrats?
 

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For the love of God, OP, please just be careful where you plant your seed.

When you consider a mother for your child, PLEASE look at her FAMILY as well, cause that's gonna be granny, papa, auntie and uncle whoever your kids are tied to for life...and if the family is loco, there's no good reason to bring an innocent baby into that fukkery.

Reading about your friend and the backpage girl made me think about my younger brother, who is slightly older than you. My fear for him is him knocking up a ratchet chick and us having to watch the mama use and abuse the baby, against him and our family, all because he didn't take fatherhood serious enough to choose a better mother to his child.

Sorry....your post triggered me.

At 27 though, you are good. Take the time first to find some good, healthy earth to plant that seed so you can be confident your fruit will come out strong and to people who can properly raise it to be the best it can possibly be.
 

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For the love of God, OP, please just be careful where you plant your seed.

When you consider a mother for your child, PLEASE look at her FAMILY as well, cause that's gonna be granny, papa, auntie and uncle whoever your kids are tied to for life...and if the family is loco, there's no good reason to bring an innocent baby into that fukkery.

Reading about your friend and the backpage girl made me think about my younger brother, who is slightly older than you. My fear for him is him knocking up a ratchet chick and us having to watch the mama use and abuse the baby, against him and our family, all because he didn't take fatherhood serious enough to choose a better mother to his child.

Sorry....your post triggered me.

At 27 though, you are good. Take the time first to find some good, healthy earth to plant that seed so you can be confident your fruit will come out strong and to people who can properly raise it to be the best it can possibly be.

Thanks. I plan to steer clear of those things you mentioned, and have kids at like 30
 

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1 of them told me a couple months ago. The other one just told me today when I wished him happy thanksgiving. Both of them are my age


Part of me is saying congrats, the other part of me is saying... what the fukk man :francis:

Life comes at you fast :mjcry:


EDIT: Whatever let me just say it

One of the best friends basically found his girl on Backpage... yeah you heard me Backpage. He was fukking around with her for months, then all of a sudden she calls him that she's pregnant with his kid. She barely has a job, and isn't in school. I basically told him what the fukk man, but it's his life. My breh knocked up a backpage girl :mjcry:







Never trust a chick like that or sign papers, they love gullible suckas :francis:



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