Poll: What Is The Universal "I Need A Beta Male" Age For Women?

[wickedsm]

Wrong

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[Marezzy]

34 is when she took a year off for be "celibate" and prove to herself she don't need a man... after dildoing herself 4 nights a week, she finally gives in to a nikka who was playing friendzone for 5 years.... he fukks... and eventually treats her like shyt just like the rest...

which leads to her at age 35

Oh shyt!!! +rep

 

[Geek Nasty]

Honestly, we should stop with all this, it's fukking regressive and backwards....All these are societal gender roles and social mores that we have enforced to the point of absurdity.....Yes, biologically women have more trouble with birth after 35, so theres that....but this obsessing about men, and finding a man, to provide stability....these are the exact foundation for behavior men CONSTANTLY mock, hate, and decry in women. I know women past 34 who are just STUCK, and they shouldn't have to be....it's sad and shameful we push these rationales and how far it's gone.

Women should do what the fukk they want with themselves and their lives. I genuninely feel sorry for many of the women I know, they are so trapped by bullshyt expectations of their own, and others making, the economic/gender realities...it's fukked up. I feel so free by comparison....

My boys girl and I were talking the other day....she's gorgeous, 34d enhanced, beautiful, good girl....yet so insecure and scared inside, she was talking about all these surgeries and how she needs to look young to keep a man, because women and men age differently...I was just shaking my head, and tried to give her honest advice, be with someone who loves you and doesn't care if you AGE like a normal fukking person.....men and women are both to blame, but it's just crazy how both genders don't WANT to progress, they want shyt stuck in the 50's, or paleolithic times...women and men are too biologically similar to treat each other they way we do, from a societal perspective.

I don't know what the fukk you just said

 

[miranda]

How come no females are commenting in this thread?

@agnosticlady doesn't count.

In the beginning if the thread we were told our only qualifications should be a man with a job that doesn't beat us. I skipped to the end of the thread and it was black women are ugly obese and trying to steal black men's assets.

No response needed

 

[Action Mike]

Sounds like men and women want to do the same thing.

Thot around and get copped at their 'prime'....Only one winner though

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

The 100 and 30 was an arbitrary number I made up to illustrate a point that not every black woman who is in her prime can and will find a suitable mate for a host of reasons so this idea that black women have some step by step manual which will guarantee a particular life outcome is CRAP.

black men insist that if you just follow steps 1-15 you will be married and if not its probably because you aint shyt. All too often black women keep being told by the paragons of great marriages, relationships, and romantic joy that if you just listen to them you will have success. You nikkas are like snake oil salesmen. I aint buyin. You guys need to get your collective lives in order before you start telling black women what they need to be doing.

Women. Not black women. All women. Need to come to grips that your time at the top is over

I'm saying all this in 100% seriousness.

You had all of history being on top of this marriage situation. You weren't allowed to work. You didn't have to come to the table with anything. You weren't even expected to. You'd sit at home with your parents until 30 if it meant so. Waiting for a man to court you. Usually a bunch of men. All showing off what they can do for you. Just so they can hopefully marry you, move you in to their house, inpregnante you, and you STILL couldn't work. So you just sat home all day watching kids and cooking

That Prince Charming was real cause you didn't have to go look. nikkas was courting and asking pops for your hand and happily working 60 hours so you didn't have to...................





That shyt dead now. Not on the coli. In life. Stats show more men are saying fukk marriage. More men are saying fukk courting. More are asking for prenups. And divorces. And letting their women work.

We are sitting around looking at y'all say you're independent. You want equal pay. You want equal rights. You want this. You want that. But let's keep marriage exactly the same. And a step farther. Let's make the penalties for divorce exactly the same


So instead of, let's get married cause we in love

Now men are thinking. Yea I love you. But is this gonna be worth half of everything plus child support and alimony if it don't work out. And since it ain't 1930. I'm not thinking of, well she ain't gonna let me get it unless I put the ring on.

Nah you already got it within 3 dates so what exactly is the incentive here?? Love and God ain't cutting it no more.




Y'all need to adjust your actions and expectations accordingly. Cause as we see with the young gen. It's only getting worse. After marriage phases out, the next will be "why even be with someone. Just fukk and keep it cool"

 

[The Maverick]

I really don't know how people can argue this. As long as men are the ones held to the standard of approaching, asking out, and proposing, the game will always be stacked in their favor. Some women are so content with waiting that it can become all they will ever know.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I somewhat agree. The men in here are looking to have their cake and eat it. Some want to be hard on hoes and get married brehs, while telling Black women that they failed if they're not wifed up after a certain age. Well if they're team GMB, and if many Black men follow that philosophy, than it makes sense why many Black women aren't married. Buuuut some of the stories I hear on here.........some women are scandalous to say the least. But you being Haitian(I'm Haitian too) you probably have stories of your own. Womanizing is prevalent among our community.

Nah people just can't seperate the two


I can tell my son not to do drugs and go hit a blunt. Doesn't take away from my message about what's best for HIM

I might be a womanizing piece of shyt. Doesn't change the advice that women should stop being superficial and find a husband early

"A man will want you when you are 21 and a 10 vs 30 and 8. A man will want you when you have no kids vs 2 kids"


I mean are these outlandish statements? Are they false? NO

But people are trying to argue so damn hard against it for whatever reason

Women know good and damn well there have been men who approached them. That may not be the sexiest. Or the richest. Or the flyest. But they were nice and kind and working and in school.

And women know they passed those dudes up before.


And women know in older ages. That those qualities might be more important in life, than sexy fun tall nikka.

While men tend to not care about such things. And focus more on visuals. I mean we can actually look up this shyt. It's science and there's a million studies on what men and women tend to want in partners I mean shyt graphs and pics and evidence has already been posted. People just skip over that like they didn't even see it


But people still wanna argue about it. For whatever reason.

 

[Malta]

@Malta

@Michael9100 seen the light, he doesn't know about the Afro-Colombian women yet.

 

[Biscayne]

Yes, my grandfather married my mothers mom but had many many many many children outside of their marriage. Some of those women tried to kill my grandma. When they moved to US she claimed a few as her own children and helped them come over. My grandma was a saint. My grandpa was a sinner but he was a great grandpa though. Till her dying die she wanted a divorce. Bless her.

Did you still enjoy your grandpas company knowing he was a womanizer?

 

[MillionMills]

In the beginning if the thread we were told our only qualifications should be a man with a job that doesn't beat us. I skipped to the end of the thread and it was black women are ugly obese and trying to steal black men's assets.

No response needed

That's lady simmone fat ass turning every thread around with her black women bullshyt

 

[LadySimone]

Women. Not black women. All women. Need to come to grips that your time at the top is over

I'm saying all this in 100% seriousness.

You had all of history being on top of this marriage situation. You weren't allowed to work. You didn't have to come to the table with anything. You weren't even expected to. You'd sit at home with your parents until 30 if it meant so. Waiting for a man to court you. Usually a bunch of men. All showing off what they can do for you. Just so they can hopefully marry you, move you in to their house, inpregnante you, and you STILL couldn't work. So you just sat home all day watching kids and cooking

That Prince Charming was real cause you didn't have to go look. nikkas was courting and asking pops for your hand and happily working 60 hours so you didn't have to...................





That shyt dead now. Not on the coli. In life. Stats show more men are saying fukk marriage. More men are saying fukk courting. More are asking for prenups. And divorces. And letting their women work.

We are sitting around looking at y'all say you're independent. You want equal pay. You want equal rights. You want this. You want that. But let's keep marriage exactly the same. And a step farther. Let's make the penalties for divorce exactly the same


So instead of, let's get married cause we in love

Now men are thinking. Yea I love you. But is this gonna be worth half of everything plus child support and alimony if it don't work out. And since it ain't 1930. I'm not thinking of, well she ain't gonna let me get it unless I put the ring on.

Nah you already got it within 3 dates so what exactly is the incentive here?? Love and God ain't cutting it no more.




Y'all need to adjust your actions and expectations accordingly. Cause as we see with the young gen. It's only getting worse. After marriage phases out, the next will be "why even be with someone. Just fukk and keep it cool"

 

[Black Hans]

They start looking for a responsible man when they no longer have the luxury of being irresponsible (i.e. OOW children, , broke, feeling like a hoe, hugging a pillow at night, etc)

 

[LadySimone]

Did you still enjoy your grandpas company knowing he was a womanizer?

Well he brought my mom and our family over. He was the first to come to lay down the foundation. He left a great legacy. His family and their children and children's children are thriving. My grandpa passed away years ago but he was still GOAT. In fact he was the FIRST person in my life telling me fuk men get your education. His wife didn't read or write in any language but he doesn't have a grand daughter that doesn't have a university degree.

 

[Bless't]

Women. Not black women. All women. Need to come to grips that your time at the top is over

I'm saying all this in 100% seriousness.

You had all of history being on top of this marriage situation. You weren't allowed to work. You didn't have to come to the table with anything. You weren't even expected to. You'd sit at home with your parents until 30 if it meant so. Waiting for a man to court you. Usually a bunch of men. All showing off what they can do for you. Just so they can hopefully marry you, move you in to their house, inpregnante you, and you STILL couldn't work. So you just sat home all day watching kids and cooking

That Prince Charming was real cause you didn't have to go look. nikkas was courting and asking pops for your hand and happily working 60 hours so you didn't have to...................





That shyt dead now. Not on the coli. In life. Stats show more men are saying fukk marriage. More men are saying fukk courting. More are asking for prenups. And divorces. And letting their women work.

We are sitting around looking at y'all say you're independent. You want equal pay. You want equal rights. You want this. You want that. But let's keep marriage exactly the same. And a step farther. Let's make the penalties for divorce exactly the same


So instead of, let's get married cause we in love

Now men are thinking. Yea I love you. But is this gonna be worth half of everything plus child support and alimony if it don't work out. And since it ain't 1930. I'm not thinking of, well she ain't gonna let me get it unless I put the ring on.

Nah you already got it within 3 dates so what exactly is the incentive here?? Love and God ain't cutting it no more.




Y'all need to adjust your actions and expectations accordingly. Cause as we see with the young gen. It's only getting worse. After marriage phases out, the next will be "why even be with someone. Just fukk and keep it cool"