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That's lady simmone fat ass turning every thread around with her black women bullshyt
The absolute bitterness that emits from the screen when I read her posts is astounding. It really is.
That's lady simmone fat ass turning every thread around with her black women bullshyt
Are you black american? Black american women have always workedYou had all of history being on top of this marriage situation. You weren't allowed to work. You didn't have to come to the table with anything. You weren't even expected to. You'd sit at home with your parents until 30 if it meant so. Waiting for a man to court you. Usually a bunch of men. All showing off what they can do for you. Just so they can hopefully marry you, move you in to their house, inpregnante you, and you STILL couldn't work. So you just sat home all day watching kids and cooking
That Prince Charming was real cause you didn't have to go look. nikkas was courting and asking pops for your hand and happily working 60 hours so you didn't have to...................
That's what we have been saying. Black american men do not want marriage or monogamyThat shyt dead now. Not on the coli. In life. Stats show more men are saying fukk marriage. More men are saying fukk courting.
Again, are you black american. We're already thereAfter marriage phases out, the next will be "why even be with someone. Just fukk and keep it cool"


Despite what people would say, a lot of guys here probably aren't getting much p*ssyIt isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it kinda plays
into their persona. Me for instance, I don't like the hookup culture. Even when I joke about it, I just don't like it. I have turned down enough
"late texts" to know that for a good while it was a thing. It doesn't bother me that someone was in a relationship or two, she was just living her life.
A woman who hopped beds...there is a chance she just liked sex, which is what I will assume. its all good. However if she exhibits insecurities, with her
experience comes baggage that us, the men, will inevitably have to deal with. Obviously for the men who fukk any and everything, he gonna be in the same boat.
However for some of us who bloomed late and aint with the fukkery that takes place, when we become most eligible, it is quite obviously the women who
"had their fun" who sees value in us first...which sucks because that value wasn't seen to be there before she gave her time and spirit to people who didn't deserve it.
I can't speak for anyone else, but it would be nice to cop a woman who still looks at things with wonderous eyes, and if she told me what she did with most of her life,
it was exploring things that weren't a penis. Being in the company of a woman who "been there/done that" robs a brotha of being the first for a lot of things.
Again, this is my perspective, can't speak for anyone else. Me being 27, I am living the reality of "Oh you don't have kids" and all that. Literally having self control
seems to be a lost virtue. I want a woman down the line who is still good-natured and exploring, and waiting so long to realize this now has me in a bind of meeting more
also-ran women than not.
All of thisthere's a big difference between you being in multiple long term or maybe even short term relationships and you hopping from one dikk to the next on some ons/yolo type shytI get what you're saying but it seems like if women have those same feelings the men here throw them into the "reformed Thot" box instead of realizing that people are dynamic living beings, not static "things" who need to have the same desires and wants all throughout life or they are disingenuous, as someone naively stated earlier.
The problem is men don't realize it and neither do women because I don't think we were meant to realize that in our 20s. Society has changed and shifted to uplifting single life in favor of marriage at and early age, for both sexes in more than simply sexual ways.
If I were to become single now is be a woman who spent most of her 20s in one relationship- I would want to be single and catch my breath and find out who I am because it has always been "us" and "we" for a while now. I know he would feel the same.
It just seems like men here don't give women the allowance to be human. After 28 they are washed up no wants them, rotten etc. Why? It sounds off, just dripping with malcontent and bitterness. They're people. The ten years from 20-30 is really a short amount of time. It's ridiculous that they think a human is worthless because they aren't in a relationship or reproducing. There are other levels to the human experience that make people,women and men, interesting and worthwhile.
there's a big difference between you being in multiple long term or maybe even short term relationships and you hopping from one dikk to the next on some ons/yolo type shyt
There certainly are some.Even if I dont see it too often, I have to believe there are women that want to build something with a man before having too many negative experiences

30+ that must be biased for White women who age like house rats. My aunt is 55, still fit, attractive and knocking down dudes (plural) in the dorms. Kind of embarrassing but after her husband died suddenly, she has no intentions of settling again. Also have mid-aged simps trying to woo her but she likes younger men because they have strong backs. Pisses me off because my friends and coworkers always want to talk to her.

Nah people just can't seperate the two
I can tell my son not to do drugs and go hit a blunt. Doesn't take away from my message about what's best for HIM
I might be a womanizing piece of shyt. Doesn't change the advice that women should stop being superficial and find a husband early
"A man will want you when you are 21 and a 10 vs 30 and 8. A man will want you when you have no kids vs 2 kids"
I mean are these outlandish statements? Are they false? NO
But people are trying to argue so damn hard against it for whatever reason
Women know good and damn well there have been men who approached them. That may not be the sexiest. Or the richest. Or the flyest. But they were nice and kind and working and in school.
And women know they passed those dudes up before.
And women know in older ages. That those qualities might be more important in life, than sexy fun tall nikka.
While men tend to not care about such things. And focus more on visuals. I mean we can actually look up this shyt. It's science and there's a million studies on what men and women tend to want in partners I mean shyt graphs and pics and evidence has already been posted. People just skip over that like they didn't even see it
But people still wanna argue about it. For whatever reason.

As a woman, why is it wrong if I choose to do the same?Breh, I'm about to turn 29... been grinding all throughout my twenties. Made sure to keep my nose clean, stay out of trouble, and avoid thots. Got a corporate gig, Masters degree, and make around 6 figures... I'm gonna give it another year at my job (wait till I turn 30) then use my connects to move to Atlanta and feast![]()

I think this thread is geared toward women who at least have the decency to stop being whores, or used by men, at a certain point in their lives.
Soo she's basically a sugar momma of sorts. Progressive woman..She is exploring her second childhood. You miss the point where she is attractive and still has options with beta simps who want to settle but she just uses them when she needs to. She has her own house and business so I can judge her. If men date 20 year girls it's ok. I'm just refuting the dumbness of the thread. Attractive people always have options
Ou ayitian?As a woman, why is it wrong if I choose to do the same?![]()