Poll: What Is The Universal "I Need A Beta Male" Age For Women?

[Elle Driver]

How come no females are commenting in this thread?

@agnosticlady doesn't count.

Because I just about avoided it lol.

 

[mamba]

age like milk?
My face has gotten younger over the years and me starting to take exercising and eating healthy serious, I think I'll be fine.
Worry about your receding hairline and expanding gut pleighboy

You probably have enough layers of paint on that face to repaint my brown cabinets in my kitchen. A lot of Black women look downright atrocious after years of putting that stuff on their skin.

I'm good. My money is long, I'm in the best shape of my life, and I run through my fair share.

There are a few chicks I dangle a carrot in front of who would probably pay for my hand in marriage right now. It's only going to get crazier as I get older. I'm sitting pretty.

 

[Vice Queen]

What about the women who don't want to get married and have kids? At all?

If none of you are going to deal with these washed up ass Volvos and want to get new Ferraris, then why is this a concern to you?

 

[Vice Queen]

their aunts and mom


also hollywood and these romantic comedies

True story though.... My mom recently said that if she knew then what she knows now, she would've gotten married in her 40s. I hit her with the .


Point is my parents did a great job of turning me off from marriage.

 

[Aceofspades404]

You probably have enough layers of paint on that face to repaint my brown cabinets in my kitchen. A lot of Black women look downright atrocious after years of putting that stuff on their skin.

I'm good. My money is long, I'm in the best shape of my life, and I run through my fair share.

There are a few chicks I dangle a carrot in front of who would probably pay for my hand in marriage right now. It's only going to get crazier as I get older. I'm sitting pretty.

put your money where your mouth is. Only one of us has posted what they actually look like and it's not you. If you truly are how you describe yourself, I will excuse myself from this website for 3 months. I refuse to believe a man of your species actually has options.

 

[mamba]

put your money where your mouth is. Only one of us has posted what they actually look like and it's not you. If you truly are how you describe yourself, I will excuse myself from this website for 3 months. I refuse to believe a man of your species actually has options.

My species? LOL! You don't think a Black man has his stuff together? I have it together, brehette!

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

What's the difference because the posters here are talking about any woman who doesn't settle down with a nice guy at a young age or any older woman who isn't married already.

Regardless, maybe a young woman enjoys men in her youth. She gets older and her desires have changed. She enjoyed her youth as many people do. Is that not possible?

That's not what this thread is supposed to be about

It's about women who date a certain type of man in their 20s. This guy gets them at their best looking. Young. Fit. Sexy. Having fun. Doing the most.

Meanwhile this guy is no good for her and not about shyt. And the other man who would be good, gets tossed to the side

If that's what you like. Cool. If you want to do that forever. Cool. If that's what you're attracted to. Cool


THE PROBLEM arises at the moment you "change" what you want all the sudden.

Suddenly in your 30s, you decide "hey these guys aren't any good for me" and you want those same men you rejected earlier

But now you're older, uglier, have a kid or two, and aren't in that fun and excitement stage. A man is expected to want that. To ignore that past. To accept everything. And then put his lifestyle on the line to marry that woman


No that's not ok. And it's pretty pretentious to expect men to just accept that. And pretty damn cocky since you know there are still hot younger women to compete with. So they try and shame us. "You don't want a real woman, strong woman, independent woman, smart woman, powerful woman....... You just want a dummy, a model, a younging, someone to manipulate, someone to control........."


And we are meerly guessing when that change suddenly happens. Meanwhile you see stats on men. We are pretty consistent in what we like across the board. We don't have a 20s type then a 30s type. And we'd understand perfectly if women shyt on us for liking hot women at 20 and rich women at 30

 

[satireprod]

What about the women who don't want to get married and have kids? At all?

If none of you are going to deal with these washed up ass Volvos and want to get new Ferraris, then why is this a concern to you?

I think what they're referring to is the women that DO complain about not being able to find a good man at a later age....I don't think men have a problem with women being out in the streets as long as they don't go complaining about why they can't settle down later AND ignore the opportunities they previously had with dudes that had genuine interest in them

 

[Aceofspades404]

My species? LOL! You don't think a Black man has his stuff together? I have it together, brehette!

nope talking about your sub species aka basement dwellers. Anyways, times a ticking, what's it gonna be

 

[MillionMills]

What about the women who don't want to get married and have kids? At all?

If none of you are going to deal with these washed up ass Volvos and want to get new Ferraris, then why is this a concern to you?

Stock still goes down as the looks fade

 

[Vice Queen]

I think what they're referring to is the women that DO complain about not being able to find a good man at a later age....I don't think men have a problem with women being out in the streets as long as they don't go complaining about why they can't settle down later AND ignore the opportunities they previously had with dudes that had genuine interest in them

Makes sense.

 

[mamba]

nope talking about your sub species aka basement dwellers. Anyways, times a ticking, what's it gonna be

Basement dwellers? I haven't lived at home since I was a in my teens.

I live on my own in a very comfortable existence, brehette. I haven't had to worry about money in a long time.

 

[Vice Queen]

A lot of young ladies need caring but stern male family members that genuinely car about them. A good father is irreplaceable so I think a father should always come first. My father loves me, but would always tell me the truth. One thing I noticed is that some fathers will delude their daughter into thinking you can do anything you want and all will be ok. A man should love you no matter what. If he doesn't love you at your worst then he doesn't deserve your best blah blah blah yada yada yada. The whole princess mentality is sickening.

My father never gave me direct advice about men. Never.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Basement dwellers? I haven't lived at home since I was a in my teens.

I live on my own in a very comfortable existence, brehette. I haven't had to worry about money in a long time.

still avoiding it I see.
Just admit it. You're probably 5'9, borderline dad bod with a not so appealing hairline that uses money as a means to feel better about himself.

 

[agnosticlady]

My father never gave me direct advice about men. Never.

My father did. My female cousins receive direct advice from their fathers. More fathers should do that.