My father is extremely self centered. When I was going through my shyt three years ago, all the conversations became about him. I avoid talking to him as much as possible.
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satireprod
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Yeah if any dude is talking about women that remains steadfast that they never want anything serious ever and stays true to that..then that's a different subject and I can't cosign hating her honesty HOWEVER most people don't and the game is cold.Makes sense.
But I'm 26, just graduated law school and a lot of my homegirls are either around my age or a few years older (26-32/33) and some of them say Nikkas aint ish and why can't they find a single good man...when I know for a fact they played over a bunch of good guys (meaning good character) that would have moved heaven and earth to be with them. And it's as if they have erased that part from their memory.
still avoiding it I see.
Just admit it. You're probably 5'9, borderline dad bod with a not so appealing hairline that uses money as a means to feel better about himself.
I'm good. I actually have a real career. Not going to post my shyt on the Coli. You probably work in retail, so having your shyt on the Coli is actually a come up!
Aceofspades404
Superstar
I'm in college dummy and I work for the government lol but go ahead. Just as I suspected
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Ah ok I understand. My father gave me advice about school, boys,finances, business, health, and etc. I don't always get along with my father, but he is a great man that worked really hard for us. Same with my mom. My father would say things, "Come and watch your mom cook. Learn how to cook because no man of worth wants a woman who can't cook". I used to think he was doing the most but as I got older I understand where he was coming from.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
True story though.... My mom recently said that if she knew then what she knows now, she would've gotten married in her 40s. I hit her with the.
Point is my parents did a great job of turning me off from marriage.
Serious question.....Do you think that your mother just made bad relationship decisions?
No. Just no.
My parents have been married since they were 18 and 19, 37 years. They met in the 5th grade and reunited in high school. So, no.Serious question.....Do you think that your mother just made bad relationship decisions?
My mother's flaw is that she never had a backbone.
My parents' collective flaw is that they are both extremely childish.
satireprod
Superstar
@Vice Queen I know you can't speak for all women but do you think the women who don't want marriage and kids still are open to just one partner for life (but no marriage) or they want to be unattached completely? I know it's different for everyone, but I'm just asking what do you think most of the women I've described want if you had to guess.
i clicked the button for 25-26 but then i read the thread...ugh
i mean, there are patterns to life
you can have your personal roadmap
and do your best to follow it
but still..
you will get shook when your peers start hitting milestones
..someone getting promoted over you
. getting married before you
..buying a house before you
..starting a family before you
if you are following a solo plan, then follow it
if you are chasing the pack, then chase it
but as a super cornball once said
if you change-up midstream then you might get cooked in the squat
many of you sound passive in your posting
i think that's a mistake
don't sit around waiting for the wind to get behind your sails
i mean, there are patterns to life
you can have your personal roadmap
and do your best to follow it
but still..
you will get shook when your peers start hitting milestones
..someone getting promoted over you
. getting married before you
..buying a house before you
..starting a family before you
if you are following a solo plan, then follow it
if you are chasing the pack, then chase it
but as a super cornball once said
if you change-up midstream then you might get cooked in the squat
many of you sound passive in your posting
i think that's a mistake
don't sit around waiting for the wind to get behind your sails
I wouldn't mind a life partner. But I wouldn't want us to live together. Keep everything material separate so no one can have a claim to palimony. If one of us fukks up in whatever way, it won't affect the other. If you still want to have a side thing, just make sure they don't leave shyt out. I prefer this arrangement because I'm afraid I'd be a miserable wife.
satireprod
Superstar
I can dig the honesty. And yeah when a lot of people say a life partner, I often wonder if they mean just that one person or not.When you say the bold do you mean they have to be honest about it, if they want that? And would you have a side thing? lol
THIS SONGS SUMS IT UP FOR THE GUYS... LISTEN CAREFULLY... THE MEN ANTHEM
I'm being realistic. There will come a point where I will only want one person to deal with, especially once sex stops being a huge factor, but I'm not leaving any room for heartache on either side.
Biscayne
Ocean air
You are a bel ti fanm Ayitian. And many AA bros would be lucky to date you. I brought up Haitian relationship issues in relation to this thread, because womanizing is common in Haitian culture. And LadySimone is Haitian also. So is SuperCool.why would you tell dudes that there are haitian women out there that wouldn't date you?