Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CrossBones]

you know I just finished the article, and I misunderstood the relationship betweem the mafia crab and her current fiance. while he may have indulged in coke parties with hookers, at least hes not a convicted murderer and mob affiliate, lol. her son is sort of hating on the low. but what I said still stands, as her babys dad is still good friend and father to her son, while she prefers to have drama and try to tame the bad boy who is getting into scuffles over her

 

[CASHAPP]

you know I just finished the article, and I misunderstood the relationship betweem the mafia crab and her current fiance. while he may have indulged in coke parties with hookers, at least hes not a convicted murderer and mob affiliate, lol. her son is sort of hating on the low. but what I said still stands, as her babys dad is still good friend and father to her son, while she prefers to have drama and try to tame the bad boy who is getting into scuffles over her

I'm really gonna try and see now if anyone ever interviewed Sofia about the ex mob dude. Like you said these females have become comedians now.

If I do end up finding an interview, we both know its gonna be some "You cannot always judge people from their past ....." or "Only God can judge" type of comment.

Its like the "my phone died"(yeah people in general use that but females are like on a whole nother level with it). Even the non hoes, its like do these females realize they need new lines and basically regurgitate things that each other say?

"Look im going to be perfectly polite.....what you are doing in harrassment"

"I'm calling the police"

"Nothing happened between us, he's lying"

"He's a really good husband but he so boring......"

"I'm on the pill.....dont worry baby"

"I don't usually do this"

And my favorite one of all time:






















"BUt.....But it goes both ways!!!"

 

[Jason B]

it almost gets to a point where its comedy, and you understand how women like to live off of a man and his energy, his life. shes obviously a woman who feeds off of the scandalousness that her man brings in. somehow a beautiful woman who can have her pick of the liter and easily find a better, more healthy relationship, chooses to be with someone who is toxic.

lesson about a majority of women you will meet : they want the forbidden fruit. they want to try to have their cake and to eat it too.

that chase for someone who is poison is a rush and a drive for them. if you make it too easy, they wont want it anymore. a man who could provide and be there for her is just boring and predictable. God offered them paradise and they forfeit it for a taste what they were told not to. with the kind of women who wants a challenge, they want something that will match their inner disorder. she will be, as you learn more about such a woman, all about the drama, and the fight. a womans past and the games shes playing today are very good indicator as to where shes going in life. many times, it almost writes itself.

True. It seems like many women cannot live without some kind of dysfunction in their lives. Without that element of dysfunction, it is like a living hell for them and they are willing to go to great lengths to get the dysfunction. That is why I am quick to dismiss any female who likes drama in her life since I make a conscious effort to live a relatively drama-free lifestyle and the female would be very bored with that and will create drama on purpose, which is fukkin stupid to say the least.

 

[kevm3]

Women always want the man that can't be 'got'. He might be in a relationship with her, but she still fears that other women will snatch him away from her. That's exciting and keeps her engaged. You give a woman stability, provide for her, make sure she has nothing to worry about and she's peeling out on you. Just like Crossbones just brought up, think about Eve in the Garden of Eden. God gave her everything and provided everything for her, but that wasn't enough. She was bored enough to listen to a snake convince her that she needed to disobey God and get that forbidden fruit.

You get to being that nice, stable provider, and babygirl will start getting real comfortable and let some snake negro get in her ear and convince her to get it in. That's what is such a trip about relationship these days. You just want to be a decent, normal dude that lives a mature, stable life, but you bring some broad into that picture and provide that for her and she'll throw your world into a tornado.

You pretty much got to be this aloof, sort of distant negro that she feels is way better than her and that she complains about constantly and that she is always worried about another woman coming to snatch you away from her. Being a grown, mature, responsible adult isn't enough. It's too boring for her and if you are boring, apparently you aren't providing for her 'emotional needs', and thus you are worthy of being cheated on or fleeced via divorce courts.

The women I could never shake were the ones I was aloof to and never trying to get in a relationship with... and found something about me they wanted to change but I never bothered. The women that peeled out on me were the ones I pursued and really showed I liked, showed I was loyal, was always there for them, etc. In some ways, I get the feeling that in order to really get a woman into you, you have to be indifferent to her to a certain extent. Indifferent to the extent you can boot her without a second thought if she acts up, you don't show outright jealousy if you catch her dealing with other dudes, but you just boot her. If a woman isn't crying, fussing, arguing, wondering how you feel about her or complaining, then she's really not satisfied.

 

[CrossBones]

Im going to say this right now, however, about the missteps and error of being "too nice" and boring. a man like that makes the mistake of surrendering himself to his woman. his leadership role, and his strength is deferred in exchange for an attempt at cooperation. that doesnt work. the extreme opposite is the wild, bad boy going off and only catering to his own whims. sure his self initiative is strong and it attracts while it leads a woman. but in the end its just about her following a man whos only concern is himself and getting his own means to his end, thus thats why hes a poor choice to try and settle with. women like that, but we know how that goes. men pay a similar cost when they try to chase and tame a woman who is a ho.

there is no need to go to either extreme if a man seeks a relationship. the end result has to be balanced and evenly yoked for it to be right. that in between involves finding whats right for you, while simultaneously making sure you arent impeding on her rights and dignity as well. but that medium can only happen if you set the right pace and she follows it. what you allow and dont allow will make or break everything.

lt me make this clear, a man has to call a woman out for her shyt. he has to let her know that her shyt stinks and that she cant just go around doing any old thing and he will accept it. you cant bow down to bullshyt, because she will not respect that. we are all with our faults, and some greater than others. if you arent consistent with your own stances, beliefs, acknowledgements of the truth, and I mean that in both ways, you will not be regarded as a credible person. and no one wants to fukk with a constant apologist. if you can command respect for yourself, stand by your beliefs, and demonstrate it, then you will have unlocked the secret to leading and being a person others will trust and respect

 

[kevm3]

Based on how there is an abundance of females who are pretty much jumpoff material nowadays, it is very unlikely that I will ever consider a serious relationship again. It is unfortunate but the thing is, my standards are high and I absolutely refuse to lower them in order to accommodate some busted ass female who is looking for a simp to give her a second chance at life after making a series of poor choices.

It has gotten to the point where I feel that the best approach for men to use when dealing with women is the "smash and dash" approach but one has to be very cautious when doing this because if you fukk with a crazy female, you will be in fear for your safety and it is just a terrible thing to endure.

I agree with you that there are an abundance of hoes out there, but I don't believe you should change your character to fit into that cesspool. Just because these hoes are flinging feces around doesn't mean you need to swan dive into that pool of filth. Maintain your character and continue filtering out these wack broads. You participating in that game will leave you possibly as a baby daddy with a broad you can't stand and with life changing stds. No need to give in. Times like these is when your character will really be put to the test. You can give in and be like the crowd or you can stand alone and stand out. I'm not going to change over into a whore monger because of the abundance of hoes out there. I might miss out on one of the few decent ones by playing that game. I don't believe you should either. If a broad starts showing some funnystyle characteristics, cut her off and resume your life doing the other activities you enjoy while also campaigning and offering other women an opportunity.

 

[CrossBones]

I'm really gonna try and see now if anyone ever interviewed Sofia about the ex mob dude. Like you said these females have become comedians now.

If I do end up finding an interview, we both know its gonna be some "You cannot always judge people from their past ....." or "Only God can judge" type of comment.

Its like the "my phone died"(yeah people in general use that but females are like on a whole nother level with it). Even the non hoes, its like do these females realize they need new lines and basically regurgitate things that each other say?

"Look im going to be perfectly polite.....what you are doing in harrassment"

"I'm calling the police"

"Nothing happened between us, he's lying"

"He's a really good husband but he so boring......"

"I'm on the pill.....dont worry baby"

"I don't usually do this"

And my favorite one of all time:






















"BUt.....But it goes both ways!!!"

shyt , that type of talk is usually how people try to duck and evade from their issues. and a lot of times that means they still got those going on. most people who are changed, or a certain way, are able to communicate it through their actions with you instead of talking and selling you on it.

people who typically spit out that nonsense about how no one should judge them, and have these sort of, negative or rebellious mantras are more often than not just talking the talk. saying it because theyre tryin to reinforce what they want to portray. if it was real, all youd have to do is show me.

 

[CrossBones]

Women always want the man that can't be 'got'. He might be in a relationship with her, but she still fears that other women will snatch him away from her. That's exciting and keeps her engaged. You give a woman stability, provide for her, make sure she has nothing to worry about and she's peeling out on you. Just like Crossbones just brought up, think about Eve in the Garden of Eden. God gave her everything and provided everything for her, but that wasn't enough. She was bored enough to listen to a snake convince her that she needed to disobey God and get that forbidden fruit.

You get to being that nice, stable provider, and babygirl will start getting real comfortable and let some snake negro get in her ear and convince her to get it in. That's what is such a trip about relationship these days. You just want to be a decent, normal dude that lives a mature, stable life, but you bring some broad into that picture and provide that for her and she'll throw your world into a tornado.

You pretty much got to be this aloof, sort of distant negro that she feels is way better than her and that she complains about constantly and that she is always worried about another woman coming to snatch you away from her. Being a grown, mature, responsible adult isn't enough. It's too boring for her and if you are boring, apparently you aren't providing for her 'emotional needs', and thus you are worthy of being cheated on or fleeced via divorce courts.

The women I could never shake were the ones I was aloof to and never trying to get in a relationship with... and found something about me they wanted to change but I never bothered. The women that peeled out on me were the ones I pursued and really showed I liked, showed I was loyal, was always there for them, etc. In some ways, I get the feeling that in order to really get a woman into you, you have to be indifferent to her to a certain extent. Indifferent to the extent you can boot her without a second thought if she acts up, you don't show outright jealousy if you catch her dealing with other dudes, but you just boot her. If a woman isn't crying, fussing, arguing, wondering how you feel about her or complaining, then she's really not satisfied.

women are typically expecting to be catered to, in some fashion. they couldnt hunt very much on their own, and needed to be looked out for. its old and its engrained in many men to be that way. but this treatment can turn bad if all she is doing expecting things to be done for her, and never properly reciprocates. she starts getting wide eyed and greedy.

its funny, but greed isnt a label that you may hear women get labeled with very often. but if a good girl has gone bad, you can be assured that she is trying to get more than she really should. she is like that because she believes she can get more for herself by hook or by crook, while avoiding all of the consequences.

the fact that a man is aloof is defiant in her eyes. she looks at getting something that is difficult, and possibly forbidden to her. once again, its a form of her submitting and living off of a mans energies. its shown to us by her desiring what is out of her grasp as she even endangers her own well being in pursuit of what is just out of reach. a form and byproduct of greed.

a lot of modern women have misinterpreted their positions and expect that even if they change their role, they deserve the old treatments and benefits from the past that theyre not working towards. relationsips where they get all the benefits, and none of the social backlash, is at the heart of where a ton of the gender problems lie now. women who feel entitled due do what we gave them, led to the spoiloing of a relationship. wanting too much, getting it, and then expecting a man who wants to deal with an emotional and self absorbed brat could end no other way than what we seeing today.

thats why every man has to see the importance of calling a woman out on her bullshyt. no one wants to deal with a spoiled brat, so handle it and check a bytch like that.

 

[Jason B]

I agree with you that there are an abundance of hoes out there, but I don't believe you should change your character to fit into that cesspool. Just because these hoes are flinging feces around doesn't mean you need to swan dive into that pool of filth. Maintain your character and continue filtering out these wack broads. You participating in that game will leave you possibly as a baby daddy with a broad you can't stand and with life changing stds. No need to give in. Times like these is when your character will really be put to the test. You can give in and be like the crowd or you can stand alone and stand out. I'm not going to change over into a whore monger because of the abundance of hoes out there. I might miss out on one of the few decent ones by playing that game. I don't believe you should either. If a broad starts showing some funnystyle characteristics, cut her off and resume your life doing the other activities you enjoy while also campaigning and offering other women an opportunity.

You're right. It is just so difficult to find women who are truly relationship material in today's toxic society with having to sort through garbage tho.

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[sixsixtwo]

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[Ms~Opinionated]

I just wanted to add to this thread.

Recently I have been fortunate to be able to see why girls date older guys. Hugh Hefner, Ice-T etc.

Yes, sometimes it is money and the sugar daddy factor. But I was having a conversation with a really old guy recently and I was suddenly intrigued by him.

He was telling me stories (kinda like old war stories) and I was really enthralled. Like . It was strange, because I wanted the conversation to continue. LOL

Anyway, I couldn't understand my reaction except to say his wisdom and knowledge fascinated me.

Why is this important to getting girls???

Younger guys lack a certain maturity and wisdom that older guys have. Which is why we date older guys younger.

This is the pimp theory. A girl wants to be led by a guy she feels is wiser and maturer. This can't happen if a guy:

1. falls all over her
2. is really immature and fails to take responsibility or be responsible
3. lacks wisdom and knowledge
4. lacks the leadership qualities necessary to lead a wife and kids
5. lacks the ability to provide for a wife and kids (can sometimes be equated with immaturity)

Anyways, this is my current theory. Although I agree with the first page of this thread. Those rules will only work in the beginning or if you are just looking for s&x.

The thing a woman wants most is to be loved by a strong man with the right qualities. Those qualities includes shaking it up every once is a while to let her know that you are still the man.

However, playing by those rules will backfire in a long term relationship.

There can be loyalty and happiness as long as BOTH parties are happy, no need for mind games all the time.

 

[Morethan1]

I just wanted to add to this thread.

Recently I have been fortunate to be able to see why girls date older guys. Hugh Hefner, Ice-T etc., etc.

Yes, sometimes it is money and the sugar daddy factor. But I was having a conversation with a really old guy recently and I was suddenly intrigued by him.

He was telling me stories (kinda like old war stories) and I was really enthralled. Like . It was strange, because I wanted the conversation to continue. LOL

Anyway, I couldn't understand my reaction except to say his wisdom and knowledge fascinated me.

Why is this important to getting girls???


Younger guys lack a certain maturity and wisdom that older guys have. Which is why we date older guys younger.

This is the pimp theory. A girl wants to be led by a guy she feels is wiser and maturer. This can't happen if a guy:

1. falls all over her
2. is really immature and fails to take responsibility or be responsible
3. lacks wisdom and knowledge
4. lacks the leadership qualities necessary to lead a wife and kids
5. lacks the ability to provide for a wife and kids (can sometimes be equated with immaturity)

Anyways, this is my current theory. Although I agree with the first page of this thread. Those rules will only work in the beginning or if you are just looking for s&x.

The thing a woman wants most is to be loved by a strong man with the right qualities. Those qualities includes shaking it up every once is a while to let her know that you are still the man.
However, playing by those rules will backfire in a long term relationship.
There can be loyalty and happiness as long as BOTH parties are happy, no need for mind games all the time.

Old heads is the best my nikka. Some times I wish I could be around them more?

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[rapdonttweet]

Speak on this breh

Scandalous females become easy to read after you've dealt with them enough times.

Don't get into a relationship with any woman you meet in a club. Good girls don't go to clubs.

Overly flirty women are a huge warning sign. If its too easy, there's probably a reason for it. Even if you think you're the coolest guy on the planet, she barely knows anything about you in the beginning stages so how would she know that? If its too easy she's either desperate or does that with every guy. You want a chick who takes some effort to land.

A woman slandering her exes is another warning sign. She just happened to keep dating bad guys and its all their fault. Uh huh. Even if she's been played, a good woman will learn from the experience and not get bitter.

Hopefully you're secure enough to learn her dating history without getting jealous. I look for women who have been in long term relationships where they ended on decent terms (not on too good terms where the guy is still in her life).

These are a few of the more obvious ones. A lot of it is instinctual. Deal with enough scandalous women and you'll learn a lot about them.