Social Media Will Cause More & More Women To Have the "Melyssa Ford" Dilemma

[philmonroe]

Who's pissed?
I said those qualities don't necessarily make for a good partner. If you crave the "likes"/approval of others, especially strangers to help feel good about yourself then you are probably bringing insecurity to the relationship. When the most someone has to share are pics of themselves, what does that say about what they have to offer in a relationship?

Must be you cause I was talking in general no need for the stupid smilie. I said everybody has those qualities in some way. Some people that don't post pictures and the like might be ugly, don't have the body, money to floss, ego so that's why they don't post pictures. Not all of course but its enough and like I said everybody feels "validation" from something. Unless you know the person how do,you know that's all they have to bring to the table?

 

[PikaDaDon]

I think it's unfair for you guys to impose very unreasonable and strict standards on females. Many of you guys have been hypersexual throughout high school and college. Some of you guys have had ran trains on girls. Alot of you guys have smoked weed. Some of you have done hard drugs and other questionable things.

............Yet you want a woman who's perfectly pristine, virtuous, and a virgin with no social media account? The things you pursue in your life have to be realistic and reasonable. What makes you think you deserve a woman like this?

 

[mamba]

Who's pissed?
I said those qualities don't necessarily make for a good partner. If you crave the "likes"/approval of others, especially strangers to help feel good about yourself then you are probably bringing insecurity to the relationship. When the most someone has to share are pics of themselves, what does that say about what they have to offer in a relationship?

A lotta wisdom in this post. Good post. Rep.

 

[thirdeye]

huh social media is doing to do what? i hate threads like this

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I'm almost 30 and many of the women I know and deal with ain't even use social media like that. If they do they don't have thousands of followers. It might be an issue for the younger brehs but I don't see women 25+ having this huge social media following unless they actually are a legit model..

 

[Jhoon]

Sometimes you guys bust your gun to sit in the shade. Myspace, migente, facebook, or any other miscellaneous social forum is to blame for a decline in marriages. You guys take the 7th grade project approach to understanding the cultural shift. You read the first chapter and the last, and skimmed through the rest.

Want to know why people aren't getting married? Wikipedia. It's a macrocosm of society. A bunch of know-nothings getting everything condensed for them at their disposal. The folks who are out here actually doing the legwork/research are for the most part not living the pitiful existence that affects so many on this forum.

 

[Jhoon]

I'm almost 30 and many of the women I know and deal with ain't even use social media like that. If they do they don't have thousands of followers. It might be an issue for the younger brehs but I don't see women 25+ having this huge social media following unless they actually are a legit model..

Its about the circles you run in. If you're an adult, you're probably going to have adult friends. I can't speak for other adults, but, if I have a job and living the boring life, it's hard to constantly be taking photos.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Its about the circles you run in. If you're an adult, you're probably going to have adult friends. I can't speak for other adults, but, if I have a job and living the boring life, it's hard to constantly be taking photos.

They take a lot of photos but they generally don't allow people to follow them who they don't know or their accounts are private etc. I do think age has something to do with it but not because these girls are living a boring life. They aren't. They have more money than little thots and can go and do whatever they want. I think the era has more to do with it. Women now grow up being the center of attention even if they are super average. Simps fukked the game up. Little thots crave attention from lonely losers who they will never actually date

 

[Still Benefited]

I don't think nikkas give a damn about that,if she posting pics like that on there,if nikkas is getting at her on there they probably think she a ho and wont take her seriously.....But it aint much different than a nikka meetin a chick out in public who looks like a ho

Whether she posting half naked pics or not,alot of these women have an addiction to this social media shyt....I think that's gon be a bigger problem then women posting pics...it must be how women feel if they dating a dude that's addicted to video games all the time,except men don't have video games that gas them up and tell them they can do better than they girl, or video games that provide hours of bad advice and encouragement from bitter lonely mafukas

 

[Bless't]

You didn't know? This is the coli, posting pictures on a website made for sharing pictures makes you a worthless, unwifeable, hoe. A lot of these chicks don't even have nude pictures just a lot of random selfies and bikini pics, somehow that makes them thots. The coli is just creating another reason to shyt on something women like.

Read between the lines.

 

[iBrowse]

I feel worse for their kids.

A scene in the not so distant future at PS149

Random Kid: Hey Billy?
Billy: What's up?
Random Kid: I didn't know you're mom was an actress?
Billy: Uh...She isn't an actress...
Random Kid: What do you mean? I saw her movie last night?
Billy: What movie?
*Random kid pulls up X-Videos clip on his iphone with Billy's mother engaged in a gangbang with 8 guys*
Billy:

You mean Superhead's son

 

[Serious]

I.G or twitter won't affect these women compared to guys and even women who can easily access a persons other info like if that person had any bankruptcy or their credit history problems,etc,etc...that will affect them

And how many dudes going to checking a broad hoe status unless u see her on xvideos

That shyt is crazy there's so many sex tapes and amateur videos out....

 

[Will Ross]

I think it's unfair for you guys to impose very unreasonable and strict standards on females. Many of you guys have been hypersexual throughout high school and college. Some of you guys have had ran trains on girls. Alot of you guys have smoked weed. Some of you have done hard drugs and other questionable things.

............Yet you want a woman who's perfectly pristine, virtuous, and a virgin with no social media account? The things you pursue in your life have to be realistic and reasonable. What makes you think you deserve a woman like this?

It would be unfair if women did not have thier own set of requirements for us.

 

[KingMalik]

Any chick that needs the constant validation of Instagram deserves a spot in Bush Gardens.

There was a girl I used to date that I always thought got away. Years later, found her Instagram, she on there posting provocative photos and half naked shots (gym photos smh) for likes when she supposed to be a mom and wife. I stopped missing her fast.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Some really good points in here.

My thing is this, I can't take a female serious if 90% of her pics are selfies & shots of her body. To me that's a major red flag, because 1) she more than likely is bringing nothing else to offer & 2) she's an attention seeker & is looking for an ego boost. My rule is, if I know the girl has a "boyfriend/boo/husband/etc", I'm not liking for their selfie or body shot. Let their "boyfriend/etc" give them the ego boost that they're so desperately seeking.