Social Media Will Cause More & More Women To Have the "Melyssa Ford" Dilemma

[iBrowse]

@Juicy still fighting the good fight

 

[AAKing23]

I think it's unfair for you guys to impose very unreasonable and strict standards on females. Many of you guys have been hypersexual throughout high school and college. Some of you guys have had ran trains on girls. Alot of you guys have smoked weed. Some of you have done hard drugs and other questionable things.

............Yet you want a woman who's perfectly pristine, virtuous, and a virgin with no social media account? The things you pursue in your life have to be realistic and reasonable. What makes you think you deserve a woman like this?

Because I uphold those same standards for myself

 

[Ashley Banks]

@Juicy still fighting the good fight

i'll be here all night folks

 

[lightbearerchef]

I be in my head on this subject myself op

Like would i wife a bytch who constantly postin her ass & t*ts/p*ssy/nipples online

Call it watchu want but i dont need no wife or kids i been solo since i was born

 

[iBrowse]

i'll be here all night folks

 

[Ashley Banks]

what a beaut

 

[Firefly]

Reveals esteem issues. Always said the baddest bytches the most insecure.


They feel like getting likes is therapy etc.



But when they age and bodies change I see alot of depression ahead for these broads. shyt is like a drug. That withdrawl gonna be a muuug.

 

[Music Fiend]

the older I get the more I try to be less judgemental about these things.

I think the main thing to be aware of is that not every chick is bad news and that some people are just living the life of a present day person.

We can all sit here and talk about social netoworks and come of like losers, but the truth is, its the way of the world and it's up to us to change the way we think about it, cuz its here to stay.
But with basic psychology, a person who trys to look one-dimension is usually fronting.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

you guys get too bent out of shape over women...

 

[PhonZhi]

the older I get the more I try to be less judgemental about these things.

I think the main thing to be aware of is that not every chick is bad news and that some people are just living the life of a present day person.

We can all sit here and talk about social netoworks and come of like losers, but the truth is, its the way of the world and it's up to us to change the way we think about it, cuz its here to stay.
But with basic psychology, a person who trys to look one-dimension is usually fronting.

i deal mainly with older women so ive actually never had to deal with this. Im 32, its the younger generation thats gonna feel the longterm affects of this social media age

 

[DaChampIsHere]

On a message board where people say outrageous things for daps, reps, etc. it's funny when threads like this exists.

People aren't really different from each other. They just use different means to cope. Live and let live.

Also, stop scrolling down your IG timelines thinking every woman should be your wifey material. That's like a woman posting here and being mad that she can't find a husband. It's like "Really, you came HERE looking for THAT?" That's not how this works, that's not how any of this works. It's the internet, people are expressing themselves the way they want, because damn near everyone thinks they can get away with it (I bet most here would be afraid if a co-worker/friend found their posts here).

You either fukk with it or don't. That doesn't mean you know that whole persons' life or even real ideas, so it really makes no sense to judgment and think your judgment is somehow valid.

I also don't really see this at all. Never see booty models or IG thots, but I don't think I made the choice to follow any either, so maybe that's why they don't exist to me really. Focus is perception.

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Sometimes you guys bust your gun to sit in the shade. Myspace, migente, facebook, or any other miscellaneous social forum is to blame for a decline in marriages. You guys take the 7th grade project approach to understanding the cultural shift. You read the first chapter and the last, and skimmed through the rest.

Want to know why people aren't getting married? Wikipedia. It's a macrocosm of society. A bunch of know-nothings getting everything condensed for them at their disposal. The folks who are out here actually doing the legwork/research are for the most part not living the pitiful existence that affects so many on this forum.

 

[Jhoon]

Nature is a wonderful thing. Just the other day I had my son help take a couple caterpillars from the steps (where they were being stepped on) and helped them into the dirt.

There's nothing more interesting that a bunch of losers lementing about everything under the sun. I wish society would have the deceny to put them in a better position.

 

[The Amerikkkan Idol]

Exactly, that's why they've invented bullshyt terms like "tolerance" and "acceptance" and "sex positive" and "slut-shaming", to try to guilt nikkaz out of having standards.

This generation wants it's cake and to eat it too. You wanna be some wild motherfukkers and then want nobody to judge you for it.

I mean if you're gonna do the shyt at least be man/woman enough to just be like, "Yup, I'm a hoe/slut/gigolo" or whatever and call it a day.

 

[philmonroe]

On a message board where people say outrageous things for daps, reps, etc. it's funny when threads like this exists.

People aren't really different from each other. They just use different means to cope. Live and let live.

Also, stop scrolling down your IG timelines thinking every woman should be your wifey material. That's like a woman posting here and being mad that she can't find a husband. It's like "Really, you came HERE looking for THAT?" That's not how this works, that's not how any of this works. It's the internet, people are expressing themselves the way they want, because damn near everyone thinks they can get away with it (I bet most here would be afraid if a co-worker/friend found their posts here).

You either fukk with it or don't. That doesn't mean you know that whole persons' life or even real ideas, so it really makes no sense to judgment and think your judgment is somehow valid.

I also don't really see this at all. Never see booty models or IG thots, but I don't think I made the choice to follow any either, so maybe that's why they don't exist to me really. Focus is perception.

Dudes out here snitching on theirselves out here because I too don't have this problem with following these type of people. You IG is a reflection of what you are into IMO since you choose who and what you follow. Some of these dudes really want them type of women but can't get them and since they can't they talk shyt about them.