One of the main things Blacks want to bring up to bring ourselves down is our marriage rates as compared to other races, particularly White folks. But the amount of White Men I encounter that are on their 2nd, 3rd, 4th+ marriage compared to Black men is astronomical. Doesn't constantly taking vows to love only one person no matter what, water the whole institution of marriage down?
I know, I know "marriage is a great wealth building tool blah blah" but how you gonna build wealth when you constantly starting over fresh with new partners?
The statistics don't tell the whole story, which is why y'all look particularly goofy quoting them to shyt on Black Wo/Men.
A White man could be married for 30 collective years but that time may be spread between like 4 women...one of which they married twice.
Compared to the average Black man that might not marry his "ole lady" until he been with her for like a decade+.
Yeah most Black kids are born out of wedlock...ok and? Just because your parents are married that doesn't guarantee that they'll do right by you or won't eventually abandon you. Just like your unmarried parents can a great team.
White relationships may look more "legit" on a superficial level(marriage) but Black relationships are more legit when it comes to what matters...raising a family. Black dad's are highly likely to not only live with, but actively parent our children. To assume otherwise because we're unmarried is foolishness.
I know, I know "marriage is a great wealth building tool blah blah" but how you gonna build wealth when you constantly starting over fresh with new partners?
The statistics don't tell the whole story, which is why y'all look particularly goofy quoting them to shyt on Black Wo/Men.
A White man could be married for 30 collective years but that time may be spread between like 4 women...one of which they married twice.
Compared to the average Black man that might not marry his "ole lady" until he been with her for like a decade+.
Yeah most Black kids are born out of wedlock...ok and? Just because your parents are married that doesn't guarantee that they'll do right by you or won't eventually abandon you. Just like your unmarried parents can a great team.
White relationships may look more "legit" on a superficial level(marriage) but Black relationships are more legit when it comes to what matters...raising a family. Black dad's are highly likely to not only live with, but actively parent our children. To assume otherwise because we're unmarried is foolishness.
Debunking the most pervasive myth about black fatherhood
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But as Josh Levs pointed out in his new book All In, 2.5 million of 4.2 million black fathers — or about 59.5 percent — live with their children. Levs's numbers suggest that it's not true, as the CDC figures suggests, that 71.5 percent of black dads are absent from their homes — but rather that many of them are simply unmarried.
And when black fathers do live with their children, they're just as, if not more, likely to be involved in their kids' everyday lives. Blow cited CDC data that showed black fathers are more likely than their white and Hispanic counterparts to feed, eat with, bathe, diaper, dress, play with, and read to their children on a daily basis.