There ain't no such thing as male "friends"

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Nobody saying you gotta be awkward and never speak again or be in a relationship, but that's not a friendship like you and your homey would have and it probably won't last once a boyfriend or girlfriend gets into the picture

Most girlfriends or wives aren't going to sit back while you go out drinking or hang out alone with your female "friend". The dynamics aren't the same
If thats ya friend she ain't got no choice. Just the same as if she don't want you hanging with Ron or whoever. It's all the same. Yall making shyt to complicated.
 

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A lot of friendships don't stand the test of time.:ld:

They dont have the same shelf-life as regular friendships

If thats ya friend she ain't got no choice. Just the same as if she don't want you hanging with Ron or whoever. It's all the same. Yall making shyt to complicated.

It's not complicated. She doesn't want you hanging out with Ron for different reasons than you hanging out with Stacey :aicmon:
 

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I disagree...

I have a male friend I've known for over 20yrs.... he knew me when I was snot nosed....
Nothing more than friends.... ever..... I call or text when I need advice or need to vent about dudes...
I love him like my brother....

If you offered him the box I'm pretty sure he would smash:mjpls:
 

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Glad it helped



I am definitely not his type... he likes Spanish girls.....
And I don't have an ass...not that it matters....
We have known each other since we were toddlers... neither one of us are looking at either in that way...

No... no... it does matter... :lolbron::mjlol: Trust me deep in the reccesses of men's mind there's always a deep dark sexual yearning to fukk females who you've met. and trust me in the darkest corner of his mind it's there... you just dont know about it.
 

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I stopped befriending females 4 years ago, but not because of the thread premise.:whoa:

The fact of the matter is, a lot of people befriend others who share common interests or fill a certain role/void. I have had female friends before, and im talking we spoke about anything, I could touch ass/t*ts at a whim and they could touch the jimmy :youngsabo: and at most it would result in play wrestling. Now what people have fukked up is not thinking these relationships cant exist, or the women who think they have 100% friendly men...there is a thin line. If im 100% not attracted to a woman and she is my "friend", chances are it was because I befriended her in spite of some grimy shyt she does, and her good outweighs the bad. But lets be real...what happens, male or female, when one of your friends also happens to be bad as hell? There is always that room for a slip up, a lowering of the guard so to speak, that turns friends into bedfellows.

:whoa:"I don't wanna ruin the friendship." If fukked and maintained decent friendships. It's possible when you have two cool people who are horny but don't have other immediate options. Male and female, all it takes is one moment of weakness. One "Damn, she looking in this moonlight" or "Cotdamn, the way he was swinging that axe at that cherry tree shirtless" to put that seed in your head. Then it is a matter of when both of you are ready to fukk SOMEONE, but you would rather it be with someone you trust dearly. Real platonic friendships do exist, but it usually requires
A. You already fukked and thats as far as it logically goes
or
B. You both aren't attracted to each other for some extraordinary circumstance.

Truth is, though, that every day, something random, something mundane can turn your homegirl/homeboy into your future pin-cushion/kabob of choice.
 
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