Fellas, it's simple. If you gonna be aggressive. Be 100% aggressive. Don't be aggressive on the net and in the bedroom but be acting like you Kind Ol' Kind in person. She gonna flip her mindset of you and she just gonna be confuse. If you gonna hoe her out, hoe her out all the way so she knows her worth and value. She knows she can't be wifed, don't bother being respectful when she don't deserve that shyt. She made her bed along time ago just like a nikka who joined a gang at 13.
Most of that shyt ya'll bytching about is being too extra, too gentlemen, too much of too much.
Let me drop the bomb. I was thinking about this earlier today after listening to Tariq. No woman really want a gentleman. They want some respect at times but even that's a wash. The women who go for nice guys generally do it so they don't get cheated on and for support that will be there more than not. They know the other nikkas ain't shyt but they ain't shyt because they know women really ain't shyt. They only want you for a reason, they crave a real nikka. Look at Mowgli and my nikka blackking. Them two are piece of shyts but they handle theirs and no one can question that. Women start talking about boys like this when they 5. I overheard little girls and even my little cousins when they think no one is around. They talking like they know shyt. Ya'll nikkas need to treat women like meat. They can say they don't like it but they hate that moist shyt 10x more. If they could get a real nikka or playa who didn't cheat and was desirable, they would drop your square ass in a NY minute but those nikkas really don't exist like that and they get taken at the oddest of times leaving hoes who feel like they wasted a fukk sad and fukked up.
Another bomb, when a woman say shyt like, all ya'll nikkas want white women. Don't say, that's not true, look at most of the gf's in the threads. No nikka, all the nikkas she would give the cheeks to, like white women. Get smart nikka. Don't be the nikka who's like, well, I like sistas. Like she gives a fukk what you like. No one does. Get real nikkas. Unless a woman is respective to something like you which she isn't most of the time, you gonna have to dog out these women like the real nikkas/playas/pimps do. It's God's way breh, it's God's way.