This is why black fathers instilling pride in their sons is so important. Very cringe read.

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Black people used to get married right out of college all the time. Don't blame Black men for the change, because Black women have been on that looking for man "on their level" stupid shyt for a long time. Overall modern American Black women are just not practical. They priced themselves out of the market, which means their product is not moving. Asian and White women are more practical overall, because they know what the market will bear. African and Caribbean women appear to be more practical as well.

You know that the problem cannot solely be American Black men, because White women get married to American Black men on a pretty regular basis.
This logic is so incredibly broken, I'm trying to understand it :whoo:
So don't blame the men, the ones who we as a culture designate to ask for the woman's hand in marriage, thereby starting the marriage process :unimpressed:
Even though Black men as a whole don't propose as often as they used to, though they still have a high frequency of relationships and children with said women :dwillhuh:
And the counterpoint to this is that because a small-minority of Black men have married White women, that its not Black men as the issue :patrice:
When those men could be marrying Black women instead :what:
 

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I hope she knows how this movie ends.

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I just wanna know how you can be a grown-ass man and never have owned a car until your girl bought you one.

And before you ask...NO, ,this would not be acceptable if the roles were reversed. In fact, it would be downright dangerous. You let a breh pay your rent, your car, your computer...until you break up and he wants all that shyt back. NO, MA'AM.


:dead::deadrose: I remember this dumb ass silly movie. Ended just as stupidly as most Tyler Perry movies, but yes by the end she snapped. It was hilarious because she rode for him for 18 years. Supporting him, helping him, supporting them. And yeah he married her, but.... 18 years.... :umad: By the time he hit his big break, she was too tired and fed up. This situation has the potential to mimic that movie(except for that dumb ending).


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Who hurt you?
No one, I’m still in my early 20s and I’m hard worker who expects to have a happy life with an equally yoked partner.

I would rather die alone with 10 cats than raise/coddle a lazy adult that has to have everything handed to them. She’s more a mother than a wife to that man.

Before you go off like I like thugs or only want a billionaire, you’re wrong. I like college educated nerds like myself. He can be a struggling student like me. I’m still at an age where’s it not even weird if he lived with his parents. A bum with no life goals or independent drive is a no go.
 

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No one, I’m still in my early 20s and I’m hard worker who expects to have a happy life. I would rather die alone with 10 cats than raise coddle a lazy adult that has to have everything handed to them. She’s more a mother than a wife to that man. It’s unattractive.

Before you go off like I liked thugs or only want a billionaire, you’re wrong. I like college educated nerds like myself. He can be a student like me. I’m still at an age where’s it not even weird if he lived with his parents. A bum with no life goals or independent drive is a no go.

ok
 

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Y’all got way too much contempt for black women :scust:

I didn’t realize it till lately but damn :picard:

Most the shyt y’all act like only black women are guilty of, other ethnicities are just as guilty of.

Ive been with my fair share of all ethnicities except Asian and non AA black women and y’all living a fantasy of y’all think white and Hispanic chicks won’t give u the same issues as black women.
 
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